[{"@context":"http:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/ozguvenli-mi-yoksa-simarik-mi\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/ozguvenli-mi-yoksa-simarik-mi\/","headline":"\u00d6zg\u00fcvenli mi Yoksa \u015e\u0131mar\u0131k m\u0131?","name":"\u00d6zg\u00fcvenli mi Yoksa \u015e\u0131mar\u0131k m\u0131?","description":"Her ebeveyn kendine g\u00fcvenen, \u00f6zg\u00fcveni y\u00fcksek ve ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar yeti\u015ftirmek ister. \u00d6zg\u00fcven ile \u015f\u0131mar\u0131kl\u0131k aras\u0131nda ise ince bir \u00e7izgi vard\u0131r. \u015e\u0131mar\u0131k \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n \u00f6zellikleri Baz\u0131 ebeveynlerin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 hakk\u0131nda, \u00e7ocu\u011funun kaba oldu\u011fu, umursamaz oldu\u011fu, ilgi \u00e7ekmek i\u00e7in Devam\u0131n\u0131 oku…<\/a>","datePublished":"2023-12-22","dateModified":"2023-12-22","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/author\/3\/#Person","name":"Sevgili Bebek","url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/author\/3\/","image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/2916d3a243921c20e926d04a237431c8?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/2916d3a243921c20e926d04a237431c8?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"Sevgili Bebek","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/cropped-sbikon.jpg","url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/cropped-sbikon.jpg","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/ozguven-ve-simariklik-arasindaki-fark1.jpg","url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/ozguven-ve-simariklik-arasindaki-fark1.jpg","height":450,"width":665},"url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/ozguvenli-mi-yoksa-simarik-mi\/","about":["Zihinsel & Ruhsal Geli\u015fim"],"wordCount":562,"keywords":["\u00c7ocuklarda \u00d6zg\u00fcven","\u00e7ocuklarda \u015f\u0131mar\u0131kl\u0131k","\u00f6zg\u00fcven geli\u015fimi","\u00d6zg\u00fcveni Y\u00fcksek \u00c7ocuklar","\u015e\u0131mar\u0131k \u00c7ocuklar","\u015e\u0131mar\u0131kl\u0131k Ile \u00d6zg\u00fcven Aras\u0131ndaki Fark"],"articleBody":"Her ebeveyn kendine g\u00fcvenen, \u00f6zg\u00fcveni y\u00fcksek ve ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar yeti\u015ftirmek ister. \u00d6zg\u00fcven ile \u015f\u0131mar\u0131kl\u0131k aras\u0131nda ise ince bir \u00e7izgi vard\u0131r.\u015e\u0131mar\u0131k \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n \u00f6zellikleriBaz\u0131 ebeveynlerin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 hakk\u0131nda, \u00e7ocu\u011funun kaba oldu\u011fu, umursamaz oldu\u011fu, ilgi \u00e7ekmek i\u00e7in sald\u0131rgan olabildi\u011fi, istedi\u011finin yap\u0131lmas\u0131 i\u00e7in \u0131srarc\u0131 oldu\u011fu ve a\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131, kimseden korkmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve \u00e7ekinmedi\u011fi gibi yak\u0131nmalar duymu\u015fsunuzdur. Bu \u00f6zelliklerin ard\u0131ndan ise, \u00f6zg\u00fcveninin \u00e7ok y\u00fcksek oldu\u011funu belirtmeleri y\u00fcksek bir olas\u0131l\u0131kt\u0131r.\u00d6zg\u00fcveni y\u00fcksek \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n \u00f6zellikleriAsl\u0131nda yukar\u0131da say\u0131lan hi\u00e7bir \u00f6zellik \u00f6z g\u00fcveni y\u00fcksek bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun karakterine ait de\u011fildir. \u00d6zg\u00fcveni y\u00fcksek \u00e7ocuk bu tav\u0131rlar\u0131n tam tersini sergiler. Yani pozitif d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilir ve kendilerini kontrol ederek sald\u0131rgan davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7ebilir. Di\u011fer \u00e7ocuklarla olumlu ili\u015fkiler kurarlar. Bu \u00e7ocuklar kendilerinin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerine de\u011fer verilip dinlenildi\u011fine inand\u0131klar\u0131 i\u00e7in sald\u0131rgan davran\u0131\u015flar, \u0131srarc\u0131 tutumlar sergilemezler. Ancak \u00e7ocu\u011fun kendini k\u0131ymetli hissetmesi ve \u00f6zg\u00fcveninin y\u00fcksek olmas\u0131 i\u00e7in, her istedi\u011finin yap\u0131lmas\u0131, s\u00fcrekli ilgi g\u00f6rmesi, hatalar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6rmemezlikten gelinmesi de do\u011fru de\u011fildir, bu hatalar; aksine \u00e7ocu\u011fun \u015f\u0131marmas\u0131na sebep olur.S\u00f6yledi\u011fimiz gibi \u00f6zg\u00fcven ile \u015f\u0131mar\u0131kl\u0131k aras\u0131nda \u00e7ok ince bir \u00e7izgi vard\u0131r. Ve bu \u00e7izgiyi do\u011fru tarafa \u00e7ekmenin en \u00f6nemli yolu ise \u00e7ocu\u011fun duygular\u0131n\u0131, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini, mutluluk ve hayallerini, \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fclerini rahatl\u0131kla payla\u015fabilece\u011fi bir aileye sahip olmas\u0131d\u0131r. Bir \u00e7ok \u00e7ocuk, fark\u0131na varmadan da olsa, bu ortamdan mahrum b\u0131rak\u0131l\u0131r. \u00c7ocuklar korktuklar\u0131 ya da yanl\u0131\u015f anla\u015f\u0131laca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fckleri i\u00e7in ebeveynleri ile d\u00fcr\u00fcst ve a\u00e7\u0131k ili\u015fkiler kuramayabilirler. Burada su\u00e7 ne \u00e7ocukta ne de ebeveynlerindedir. Do\u011fru ileti\u015fim kurabilmek \u00e7o\u011fu zaman yeti\u015fkinler aras\u0131nda bile \u00e7ok zorken, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n hissettiklerini anlayarak iyi bir ileti\u015fim kurmay\u0131 ba\u015farabilmek hi\u00e7 de kolay de\u011fildir. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131zla ileti\u015fim kurmaya her zaman \u00f6zen g\u00f6stermeli, yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 hatalar\u0131, korkular\u0131n\u0131, mutluluklar\u0131n\u0131 yani k\u0131saca her \u015feylerini ebeveynleri ile payla\u015fabilmeleri i\u00e7in onlar\u0131 cesaretlendirmelisiniz. Bunlar\u0131 yaparken asla hatalar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmezden gelin demek istemiyoruz. Elbette bir hata yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bunu kabul etmesi, d\u00fczeltmesi gerekir. Ancak bunu yapmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flarken k\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 olmadan, a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 y\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 ele\u015ftiriler yapmadan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.\u0130lk Yay\u0131n Tarihi: 30 Aral\u0131k 2016 @ 19:22"},{"@context":"http:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"item":{"@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/#breadcrumbitem","name":"Sevgili Bebek"}},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"item":{"@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/ozguvenli-mi-yoksa-simarik-mi\/#breadcrumbitem","name":"\u00d6zg\u00fcvenli mi Yoksa \u015e\u0131mar\u0131k m\u0131?"}}]}]