[{"@context":"http:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/kucuk-cocuklarda-calma-aliskanligi\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/kucuk-cocuklarda-calma-aliskanligi\/","headline":"K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00c7ocuklarda (\u00c7)alma Al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131","name":"K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00c7ocuklarda (\u00c7)alma Al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131","description":"Anaokuluna giden \u00e7ocu\u011funuz okuldan \u00e7antas\u0131nda arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131n boya kalemlerini getirebilir ya da k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131z bakkaldan kimse g\u00f6rmeden \u00e7ikolata alm\u0131\u015f olabilir\u2026 K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuklarda g\u00f6r\u00fclebilen bu davran\u0131\u015fa asl\u0131nda \u00e7alma veya h\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131k demek yanl\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00d6zellikle 3-6 ya\u015f aras\u0131ndaki \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n<a class=\"moretag\" href=\"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/kucuk-cocuklarda-calma-aliskanligi\/\"> Devam\u0131n\u0131 oku&hellip;<\/a>","datePublished":"2023-03-12","dateModified":"2023-03-12","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/author\/nurolcay\/#Person","name":"Fatma Nur Olcay","url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/author\/nurolcay\/","image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/1fd49f668f460136f629e7a2366df51a?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/1fd49f668f460136f629e7a2366df51a?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"Sevgili Bebek","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/cropped-sbikon.jpg","url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/cropped-sbikon.jpg","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/shutterstock_174289034.jpg","url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/shutterstock_174289034.jpg","height":665,"width":1000},"url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/kucuk-cocuklarda-calma-aliskanligi\/","about":["Zihinsel &amp; Ruhsal Geli\u015fim"],"wordCount":878,"keywords":["\u00c7ocu\u011fum h\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131k yapt\u0131","\u00c7ocu\u011fun h\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131k yapmas\u0131","\u00e7ocuk davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131","\u00c7ocuk Psikolojisi","\u00c7ocuklarda \u00e7alma","\u00c7ocuklarda \u00e7alma al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131","\u00c7ocuklarda h\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131k"],"articleBody":"Anaokuluna giden \u00e7ocu\u011funuz okuldan \u00e7antas\u0131nda arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131n boya kalemlerini getirebilir ya da k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131z bakkaldan kimse g\u00f6rmeden \u00e7ikolata alm\u0131\u015f olabilir\u2026 K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuklarda g\u00f6r\u00fclebilen bu davran\u0131\u015fa asl\u0131nda \u00e7alma veya h\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131k demek yanl\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.\u00d6zellikle 3-6 ya\u015f aras\u0131ndaki \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n benmerkezci \u00f6zellikleri fazlad\u0131r. D\u00fcnyan\u0131n kendi etraf\u0131nda d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc, herkesin ve her \u015feyin onun i\u00e7in var oldu\u011fu gibi bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri vard\u0131r. Her oyuncak onlar\u0131n, her g\u00fczel kalem, \u015feker onlar\u0131nd\u0131r. Dolay\u0131s\u0131 ile ba\u015fkas\u0131na ait olan bir e\u015fyay\u0131 izinsiz olarak almakta sak\u0131nca g\u00f6rmezler. Bu davran\u0131\u015fa \u00e7alma, h\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131k demek yanl\u0131\u015f olur.Ayr\u0131ca o ya\u015flarda \u00e7ocuklarda hen\u00fcz m\u00fclkiyet duygusu da geli\u015fmemi\u015ftir. Bu sebeple ba\u015fkas\u0131na ait bir e\u015fyay\u0131 habersiz ve izinsiz alman\u0131n k\u00f6t\u00fc bir \u015fey oldu\u011funun fark\u0131nda de\u011fillerdir.\u00c7ocuklardaki bu izinsiz alma davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7alma olarak de\u011ferlendirilebilmesi i\u00e7in, \u00e7ocu\u011fun ilkokul \u00e7a\u011f\u0131nda olmas\u0131 gerekir.2 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki bir \u00e7ocuk senin, benim, onun gibi kavramlar\u0131 hen\u00fcz alg\u0131layamaz. Bu y\u00fczden arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131n oyunca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 veya markette g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc \u015fekeri almak sorun de\u011fildir onun i\u00e7in.\u00c7ocuk 3-4 ya\u015f\u0131na geldi\u011finde, art\u0131k senin, benim gibi kavramlar\u0131 yava\u015f yava\u015f anlamaya ba\u015flar. Yine de i\u00e7indeki sahip olma d\u00fcrt\u00fcs\u00fcne engel olamaz.\u00c7ocuklar neden \u00e7alar?\u00c7ocu\u011fun izinsiz olarak ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n e\u015fyalar\u0131n\u0131 almas\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015fka sebepleri de olabilir;Anne ve babas\u0131ndan yeteri kadar ilgi ve sevgi g\u00f6remeyen \u00e7ocuklarda bu durum olu\u015fabilir. Yani \u00e7ocuk \u00e7alarak kendisine ilgi \u00e7ekmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabilir.K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k da \u00e7almak i\u00e7in bir sebeptir k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuklarda. Arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131 k\u0131skanan \u00e7ocuk ona ait olan bir e\u015fyay\u0131 izinsiz olarak alarak, arkada\u015f\u0131ndan kendince intikam almaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabilir.\u00c7ocu\u011fun hayat\u0131nda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00f6nemli olaylar, ebeveynlerin bo\u015fanmas\u0131, ev de\u011fi\u015fikli\u011fi, sevdi\u011fi birisini kaybetme gibi sebepler de \u00e7alma eylemine sebep olabilir.Ailenin \u00e7ocu\u011fun ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 yeterince kar\u015f\u0131layamamas\u0131, oyuncak, giyecek gibi temel ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6z ard\u0131 edilmesi,Daha b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in izledikleri filmlerin veya oynad\u0131klar\u0131 oyunlar\u0131n etkisinde kalm\u0131\u015f olmalar\u0131 da, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 h\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa te\u015fvik edebilir.Ayr\u0131ca, aile i\u00e7inde maddi yetersizliklerden s\u0131k\u00e7a bahsedilmesi de \u00e7ocu\u011fu gelecek kayg\u0131s\u0131yla h\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa itebilir.\u00c7ocu\u011fun \u00e7alma davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 i\u00e7in anne ve babalar ne gibi \u00f6nlemler alabilir?\u00d6ncelikle unutulmamas\u0131 gereken \u00e7ocu\u011fun ya\u015f aral\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r. Yakla\u015f\u0131k 5-6 ya\u015flar\u0131na kadar \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ba\u015fka \u00e7ocuk veya ki\u015filerin e\u015fyalar\u0131n\u0131 izinsiz ve habersiz olarak almas\u0131 h\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131k olarak adland\u0131r\u0131lmamal\u0131d\u0131r.Her zaman oldu\u011fu gibi olay\u0131 fark etti\u011finizde sakin kalman\u0131z \u00f6nemlidir. \u00c7ocu\u011fa a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 tepki vermek, ba\u011f\u0131rmak, daha k\u00f6t\u00fcs\u00fc polis \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rmakla tehdit etmek \u00e7ok yanl\u0131\u015f bir tutumdur.\u00c7ocukla konu\u015farak ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 e\u015fyay\u0131 geri vermesi sa\u011flanmal\u0131d\u0131r.\u00c7ocuklara k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015flardan itibaren, m\u00fclkiyet kavram\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretmek gerekir. Benim, senin ifadelerini, ba\u015fkas\u0131na ait bir e\u015fyay\u0131 al\u0131rken izin istenmesi gerekti\u011fini \u00e7ocu\u011funuza \u00f6\u011fretmelisiniz.\u00c7ocu\u011funuza \u00f6rnek olmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Ba\u015fkas\u0131na ait bir e\u015fyay\u0131 al\u0131rken izin istedi\u011finizi g\u00f6rmeli. \u00c7ocu\u011funuzun oyunca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 veya ba\u015fka bir e\u015fyas\u0131n\u0131 al\u0131rken \u00e7ocu\u011funuzdan izin istemelisiniz. Ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde \u00e7ocu\u011funuz sizin e\u015fyalar\u0131 alaca\u011f\u0131 zaman da sizden izin istemeli.Kendisine ait bir oda ve e\u015fyalar\u0131 olmal\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n. Kendi e\u015fyalar\u0131n\u0131 ve odas\u0131n\u0131 toplamas\u0131, d\u00fczenli ve temiz tutmas\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011fun m\u00fclkiyet kavram\u0131n\u0131 anlamas\u0131na ve \u00f6zel e\u015fyalar\u0131n korunmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini anlamas\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur.\u0130stedi\u011fi bir \u015fey oldu\u011funda, bunu elde etmek i\u00e7in neler yapmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini \u00f6\u011fretin. Sahibinden istemek, anne ve babadan istemek, para biriktirmek gibi.Arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z aras\u0131nda konu\u015furken, d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck kalmad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan, hile ve yalan ile h\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131k yap\u0131larak zengin olundu\u011fundan bahsetmemelisiniz. O anda oyuncaklar\u0131 ile oynuyor gibi g\u00f6z\u00fckse de \u00e7ocu\u011funuz s\u00f6ylediklerinize kulak misafiri olur.\u00c7ocu\u011funuz bir e\u015fyay\u0131 izinsiz olarak ald\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, onunla konu\u015furken, ona g\u00fcvendi\u011finizi ve bir daha ayn\u0131 davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 yapmayaca\u011f\u0131na inand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 anlatmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.Ya\u015fanan bu olay\u0131 kendi aran\u0131zda tutmal\u0131, ba\u015fka ki\u015filere anlatarak \u00e7ocu\u011fu utand\u0131rmamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.\u00c7ocu\u011fun bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 devam ederse, bir uzmandan yard\u0131m almak gerekebilir.\u0130lk Yay\u0131n Tarihi: 29 Temmuz 2016 @ 15:52"},{"@context":"http:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"item":{"@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/#breadcrumbitem","name":"Sevgili Bebek"}},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"item":{"@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/kucuk-cocuklarda-calma-aliskanligi\/#breadcrumbitem","name":"K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00c7ocuklarda (\u00c7)alma Al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131"}}]}]