[{"@context":"http:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/iyi-baba-olmak\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/iyi-baba-olmak\/","headline":"\u0130yi Baba Olmak","name":"\u0130yi Baba Olmak","description":"Her ne kadar \u00e7ocu\u011fun bak\u0131m\u0131ndan beslenmesine her konuda \u00f6n planda olan anne gibi g\u00f6z\u00fckse de; babalar\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00f6nemi b\u00fcy\u00fckt\u00fcr. Baba, hem k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 hem de erkek \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 i\u00e7in g\u00fcveni simgeler. \u00c7ocu\u011fun gelecekte nas\u0131l bir<a class=\"moretag\" href=\"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/iyi-baba-olmak\/\"> Devam\u0131n\u0131 oku&hellip;<\/a>","datePublished":"2021-11-19","dateModified":"2021-11-19","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/author\/3\/#Person","name":"Sevgili Bebek","url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/author\/3\/","image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/2916d3a243921c20e926d04a237431c8?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/2916d3a243921c20e926d04a237431c8?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"Sevgili Bebek","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/cropped-sbikon.jpg","url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/cropped-sbikon.jpg","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/iyi-baba-olmak1.jpg","url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/iyi-baba-olmak1.jpg","height":450,"width":665},"url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/iyi-baba-olmak\/","about":["Ebeveyn &amp; Aile"],"wordCount":616,"keywords":["aile i\u00e7i ili\u015fkiler","babalar\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in \u00f6nemi","Babalar\u0131n \u00d6nemi","\u00e7ocuk baba ili\u015fkisi","Erkek \u00c7ocuklar\u0131 I\u00e7in Baba","K\u0131z \u00c7ocuklar\u0131 I\u00e7in Baba Modeli","K\u0131z \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n Babaya Yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131"],"articleBody":"Her ne kadar \u00e7ocu\u011fun bak\u0131m\u0131ndan beslenmesine her konuda \u00f6n planda olan anne gibi g\u00f6z\u00fckse de; babalar\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00f6nemi b\u00fcy\u00fckt\u00fcr. Baba, hem k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 hem de erkek \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 i\u00e7in g\u00fcveni simgeler. \u00c7ocu\u011fun gelecekte nas\u0131l bir karakteri olaca\u011f\u0131ndan, e\u015f se\u00e7imine kadar baban\u0131n hayat\u0131ndaki rol\u00fc b\u00fcy\u00fckt\u00fcr.&nbsp;Erkek \u00e7ocuklar, babalar\u0131n\u0131n minik birer kopyas\u0131 olurlar. Babalar\u0131na \u00f6zenir, onlar kadar b\u00fcy\u00fck olmak, i\u015fe gitmek, gazete okumak isterler. \u00d6zellikle 3 ya\u015f\u0131ndan sonra cinsel kimli\u011fini daha iyi tan\u0131yabilmek i\u00e7in babalar\u0131n\u0131 izler ve taklit ederler. Bu da \u00e7ocu\u011fun karakterini olu\u015fturur.&nbsp;Erkek \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 ile babalar\u0131 aras\u0131nda \u00e7o\u011funlukla tatl\u0131 bir rekabet olur. Baban\u0131n bu rekabeti g\u00fc\u00e7 sava\u015flar\u0131na \u00e7evirmemesi, \u00e7ocu\u011fu ile empati kurmas\u0131 gerekir. Baban\u0131n anneye kar\u015f\u0131 tav\u0131rlar\u0131 bile \u00e7ocu\u011fu etkiler. \u0130leride kad\u0131n erkek ili\u015fkilerinden, gelecekte kuraca\u011f\u0131 ailesine kadar, babas\u0131 ve annesinin aras\u0131ndaki ili\u015fki model olur.K\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 i\u00e7inse; babas\u0131n\u0131n varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 bamba\u015fkad\u0131r. Babas\u0131 k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011funun hayat\u0131ndaki ilk erkektir. K\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu i\u00e7in baba g\u00fcven demektir. Baban\u0131n sevgi dolu ve \u015fefkatli olmas\u0131, k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131n ailesine olan g\u00fcvenini peki\u015ftirir, kendisine ve kar\u015f\u0131 cinse olan g\u00fcveni artar. Baban\u0131n adil olmas\u0131, k\u0131z\u0131na, kad\u0131n erkek ili\u015fkilerinin nas\u0131l olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini \u00f6\u011fretir. K\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu babas\u0131 ile erkekleri tan\u0131r ve gelecekte nas\u0131l bir e\u015f se\u00e7mesi gerekti\u011fine dair karakter \u00f6zelliklerini babas\u0131 ile \u00f6\u011frenir.Babas\u0131 ile iyi ili\u015fkileri olan \u00e7ocuklar, okulda ve sosyal hayatlar\u0131nda daha uyumlu, \u00f6zg\u00fcvenli ve ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olurlar. Liderlik \u00f6zellikleri geli\u015fmi\u015f olur.Baban\u0131n sert olmas\u0131, olaylar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda \u00e7ocu\u011funa s\u00f6z hakk\u0131 vermeden yarg\u0131lamas\u0131, a\u011f\u0131r cezalar vermesi sonucunda iki farkl\u0131 karakterde \u00e7ocuk geli\u015febilir.&nbsp;Birincisinde; \u00e7ocuk, karakterine ba\u011fl\u0131 olarak babas\u0131na sert kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k verebilir. Babas\u0131n\u0131n istedi\u011fi \u015feylerin tam tersini yaparak, babas\u0131n\u0131n istedi\u011fi ki\u015finin tam tersi olma yoluna girer.&nbsp;\u0130kincisinde ise; \u00e7ocuk, babaya kar\u015f\u0131 \u0131l\u0131ml\u0131 yakla\u015f\u0131r. Babas\u0131n\u0131n istediklerini kabul eder, sorun \u00e7\u0131ks\u0131n istemez. Bunun sonucunda ise, yeti\u015fkinli\u011finde \u00f6zg\u00fcven eksikli\u011fi sorunu ya\u015far. Duygular\u0131n\u0131 bast\u0131r\u0131r, kendinden s\u00fcrekli \u00f6d\u00fcn veren bir birey olur. Baban\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011funa kar\u015f\u0131 \u0131l\u0131ml\u0131 ve anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131 olmas\u0131 bu y\u00fczden \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir.\u0130yi bir baba olabilmek i\u00e7in;Baban\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 sab\u0131rl\u0131 ve adil olmas\u0131 gerekir.Birlikte zaman ge\u00e7irmeleri gerekir. \u00c7ocukla yaln\u0131zca televizyon izlemek de\u011fil, kitap okumak, y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015fe \u00e7\u0131kmak gibi aktiviteler de yapmak gerekir.Baban\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011funu disipline ederken tav\u0131rlar\u0131 \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir. Baba cezaland\u0131r\u0131r fakat adil ve sakin olmal\u0131d\u0131r.&nbsp;Babalar\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na sevgilerini hissettirmeleri gerekir. Bunu yaln\u0131zca kelimeler ile de\u011fil dokunu\u015flar\u0131 ile de hissettirmelilerdir.\u0130lk Yay\u0131n Tarihi: 9 \u015eubat 2017 @ 21:57"},{"@context":"http:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"item":{"@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/#breadcrumbitem","name":"Sevgili Bebek"}},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"item":{"@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/iyi-baba-olmak\/#breadcrumbitem","name":"\u0130yi Baba Olmak"}}]}]