[{"@context":"http:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/cocuklarda-calma-aliskanligi\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/cocuklarda-calma-aliskanligi\/","headline":"\u00c7ocuklarda (\u00c7)alma Al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131","name":"\u00c7ocuklarda (\u00c7)alma Al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131","description":"K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131z marketten kimse g\u00f6rmeden \u015feker alm\u0131\u015f olabilir, ya da o\u011flunuz anaokulundan arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131n pelu\u015f ay\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 getirmi\u015f olabilir. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuklarda g\u00f6r\u00fclen bu tip davran\u0131\u015flara asl\u0131nda h\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131k ya da \u00e7alma demek yanl\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. 3 ile 6 ya\u015f aras\u0131ndaki<a class=\"moretag\" href=\"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/cocuklarda-calma-aliskanligi\/\"> Devam\u0131n\u0131 oku&hellip;<\/a>","datePublished":"2023-04-24","dateModified":"2023-04-24","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/author\/3\/#Person","name":"Sevgili Bebek","url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/author\/3\/","image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/2916d3a243921c20e926d04a237431c8?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/2916d3a243921c20e926d04a237431c8?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"Sevgili Bebek","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/cropped-sbikon.jpg","url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/cropped-sbikon.jpg","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/shutterstock_174289034.jpg","url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/shutterstock_174289034.jpg","height":665,"width":1000},"url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/cocuklarda-calma-aliskanligi\/","about":["Zihinsel &amp; Ruhsal Geli\u015fim"],"wordCount":572,"keywords":["\u00c7ocu\u011fum \u00e7ald\u0131","\u00c7ocu\u011fum e\u015fya \u00e7ald\u0131","\u00c7ocu\u011fum h\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131k yapt\u0131","\u00c7ocuk Psikolojisi","\u00c7ocuklarda \u00e7alma","\u00c7ocuklarda h\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131k","\u00c7ocuklarda m\u00fclkiyet kavram\u0131"],"articleBody":"K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131z marketten kimse g\u00f6rmeden \u015feker alm\u0131\u015f olabilir, ya da o\u011flunuz anaokulundan arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131n pelu\u015f ay\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 getirmi\u015f olabilir. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuklarda g\u00f6r\u00fclen bu tip davran\u0131\u015flara asl\u0131nda h\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131k ya da \u00e7alma demek yanl\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.3 ile 6 ya\u015f aras\u0131ndaki \u00e7ocuklarda benmerkezci \u00f6zellikler fazlad\u0131r. Bu ya\u015flarda \u00e7ocuklar her \u015feyin kendileri i\u00e7in var oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrler. Bu da kendilerine ait olmayan bir e\u015fyay\u0131 almalar\u0131nda sak\u0131nca olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceye kap\u0131lmalar\u0131na sebep olabilir. Zaten bu ya\u015flarda hen\u00fcz m\u00fclkiyet duygusu da geli\u015fmemi\u015ftir. Bu y\u00fczden ba\u015fkalar\u0131na ait e\u015fyalar\u0131 izin almadan alman\u0131n yanl\u0131\u015f bir \u015fey oldu\u011funu da d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnemezler.\u00c7ocuklarda izinsiz alma al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7alma olarak d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilmesi i\u00e7in \u00e7ocu\u011fun ilk okul \u00e7a\u011flar\u0131nda olmas\u0131 gerekir.2 ya\u015f civar\u0131ndaki \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in senin, benim gibi kavramlar geli\u015fmedi\u011finden ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n e\u015fyalar\u0131n\u0131 almak sorun de\u011filken, \u00e7ocuk 3-4 ya\u015f\u0131na geldi\u011finde bu kavram\u0131n geli\u015fmeye ba\u015flamas\u0131na ra\u011fmen \u00e7ocuk sahip olma d\u00fcrt\u00fcs\u00fcne engel olamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in bu davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 g\u00f6sterebilir.\u00c7ocuklar neden \u00e7alar?\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n e\u015fyalar\u0131n\u0131 izinsiz olarak almas\u0131n\u0131n alt\u0131nda ba\u015fka sebepler de yat\u0131yor olabilir;Hayat\u0131nda ba\u015f edemedi\u011fi, bo\u015fanma, \u00f6l\u00fcm, adres de\u011fi\u015fimi gibi olaylar ya\u015f\u0131yor olabilir.Oyuncak, yiyecek ve giyecek gibi ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131n tam kar\u015f\u0131lanam\u0131yor olabilir.\u00c7ocuk \u00e7alarak ilgi \u00e7ekmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor olabilir, ailesinden yeterince ilgi g\u00f6rm\u00fcyor olabilir.\u0130zlenen bir filmin ya da oynanan bir oyunun etkisinde kal\u0131yor olabilir.Anne ve babalar ne gibi \u00f6nlemler alabilir?\u00d6ncelikle 5-6 ya\u015f\u0131ndan k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocu\u011funuzda bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 g\u00f6zlemlediyseniz, bunu h\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131k olarak adland\u0131rmaman\u0131z gerekti\u011fini bilmelisiniz. Sakin kalman\u0131z, \u00e7ocu\u011funuza ba\u011f\u0131rmaman\u0131z, a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 tepki vermemeniz, polis \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rmak gibi tehditler s\u00f6ylememeniz gerekmektedir.\u00c7ocu\u011funuzla konu\u015farak ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 e\u015fyay\u0131 geri vermesini sa\u011flamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.Bu gibi davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n \u00f6nceden \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7ebilmek i\u00e7in, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015flardan itibaren m\u00fclkiyet kavram\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6\u011fretilmesi gerekir.\u00c7ocu\u011funuza \u00f6rnek olmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n nasihatlerden \u00e7ok ebeveynlerini taklit ederek \u00f6\u011frendiklerini unutmamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Bir e\u015fya al\u0131rken istedi\u011finizi ve te\u015fekk\u00fcr etti\u011finizi zaman zaman g\u00f6rmeli.\u00c7ocu\u011fun m\u00fclkiyet kavram\u0131n\u0131n daha iyi geli\u015febilmesi i\u00e7in kendisine ait odas\u0131, e\u015fyalar\u0131 ve oyuncaklar\u0131 olmal\u0131. Bu e\u015fyalar\u0131 korumak, d\u00fczenini sa\u011flamak gibi davran\u0131\u015flar da m\u00fclkiyet kavram\u0131n\u0131n geli\u015fmesine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacakt\u0131r.\u0130stedi\u011fi \u015feyleri nas\u0131l elde edebilece\u011fini \u00f6\u011fretmelisiniz. Sahibinden istemek, anneden babadan istemek gibi\u2026\u00c7ocu\u011funuz bir e\u015fyay\u0131 izinsiz ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman, onunla konu\u015farak ona g\u00fcvendi\u011finizi ve ayn\u0131 davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 bir daha g\u00f6stermeyece\u011fine inand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 belirtmelisiniz.Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bu olay\u0131 ba\u015fka ki\u015filere anlatarak \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu utand\u0131rmamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.E\u011fer davran\u0131\u015f devam ediyorsa bir uzmandan yard\u0131m almal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.\u0130lk Yay\u0131n Tarihi: 18 Temmuz 2018 @ 14:00"},{"@context":"http:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"item":{"@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/#breadcrumbitem","name":"Sevgili Bebek"}},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"item":{"@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/cocuklarda-calma-aliskanligi\/#breadcrumbitem","name":"\u00c7ocuklarda (\u00c7)alma Al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131"}}]}]