[{"@context":"http:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/cocuk-ve-buyukanne\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/cocuk-ve-buyukanne\/","headline":"\u00c7ocuk ve B\u00fcy\u00fckanne (0-12 Ay)","name":"\u00c7ocuk ve B\u00fcy\u00fckanne (0-12 Ay)","description":"\u00c7al\u0131\u015fan anneler, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya d\u00f6nd\u00fckten sonra bebe\u011fe kimin bak\u0131m verece\u011fi ile ilgili do\u011fum s\u00fcreci ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan itibaren d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrler. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131na kimin bak\u0131m verdi\u011fi titizlikle incelenmesi gereken ve anneleri s\u0131kl\u0131kla kayg\u0131land\u0131ran bir konudur. Bu nedenle anneler, en yak\u0131nlar\u0131nda olan<a class=\"moretag\" href=\"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/cocuk-ve-buyukanne\/\"> Devam\u0131n\u0131 oku&hellip;<\/a>","datePublished":"2022-02-23","dateModified":"2022-02-23","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/author\/3\/#Person","name":"Sevgili Bebek","url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/author\/3\/","image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/2916d3a243921c20e926d04a237431c8?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/2916d3a243921c20e926d04a237431c8?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"Sevgili Bebek","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/cropped-sbikon.jpg","url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/cropped-sbikon.jpg","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/Grandma-and-toddler-e1407435413948.jpeg","url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/Grandma-and-toddler-e1407435413948.jpeg","height":470,"width":500},"url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/cocuk-ve-buyukanne\/","commentCount":"4","about":["Ebeveyn &amp; Aile","Fizyolojik Geli\u015fim"],"wordCount":647,"keywords":["anneanne","babaanne","bak\u0131c\u0131","bebek","bebek bak\u0131m\u0131","\u00c7al\u0131\u015fan anneler","\u00e7ocuk","\u00c7ocuk bak\u0131m\u0131","\u00c7ocuk Geli\u015fimi","ebeveyn"],"articleBody":"\u00c7al\u0131\u015fan anneler, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya d\u00f6nd\u00fckten sonra bebe\u011fe kimin bak\u0131m verece\u011fi ile ilgili do\u011fum s\u00fcreci ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan itibaren d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrler. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131na kimin bak\u0131m verdi\u011fi titizlikle incelenmesi gereken ve anneleri s\u0131kl\u0131kla kayg\u0131land\u0131ran bir konudur. Bu nedenle anneler, en yak\u0131nlar\u0131nda olan ve sonsuz g\u00fcven duyduklar\u0131 ki\u015filere ba\u015fvururlar: B\u00fcy\u00fckannelere.Bu karar, annelerin g\u00fcven sorununu \u00e7\u00f6zerken ba\u015fka bir tak\u0131m \u00e7ocuk geli\u015fimi problemlerini beraberinde getirmektedir:Anne\/baba da b\u00fcy\u00fckannenin \u00e7ocu\u011fudur ve bu y\u00fczden rol karma\u015fas\u0131 ya\u015fanabilir.Anne\/baba annesine \u00e7ocuk bak\u0131m\u0131 konusunda ikazlarda bulunmaya \u00e7ekinebilir.B\u00fcy\u00fckanneler, \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftirmek konusunda ne kadar bilgili de olsa, anne-baban\u0131n \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftirme arzusuyla bu bilgiler \u00f6rt\u00fc\u015fmeyebilir.Anne-baban\u0131n hay\u0131r dedi\u011fi \u015feye, b\u00fcy\u00fckanneler rahatl\u0131kla evet diyebilir. Bu da disiplinin \u00e7ocukta geli\u015fmesinde s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 yaratabilir.Anne-babalar \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131zla\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 isterken, bazen b\u00fcy\u00fckanneler onlar\u0131n bebek kalmas\u0131 i\u00e7in kas\u0131tl\u0131 olmayan \u015fekilde davranabilirler. (\u00d6rn. \u00c7ocu\u011fu kendi yiyebilece\u011fi halde beslemek, y\u00fcr\u00fcyebilec\u011fi halde kucakta ta\u015f\u0131mak gibi)Anne-baban\u0131n geli\u015fimle ilgili uyar\u0131 ya da \u00f6nerilerine, b\u00fcy\u00fckanne\/b\u00fcy\u00fckbabalar &#8221;Sizi de biz yeti\u015ftirdik&#8221; gibi al\u0131ngan c\u00fcmlelerle kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kabilmektedirler.T\u00fcm bu anla\u015fmazl\u0131klara ra\u011fmen, anne baban\u0131n kafas\u0131 g\u00fcven konusunda olduk\u00e7a rahatt\u0131r, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc annelerinin \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftirmek konusundaki bilgilerine g\u00fcvenmektedirler. \u00d6te yandan baz\u0131 ebeveynler, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 kendi y\u00f6ntemleri, kendi disiplinleri \u00e7er\u00e7evesinde b\u00fcy\u00fcmesini istiyor olabilirler. Zaman zaman \u015fu \u00f6rneklere rastlan\u0131lmakta&#8230; Anne \u00e7ocu\u011funun 1 saat TV ba\u015f\u0131nda durmas\u0131n\u0131 yeterli bulmakta, fakat b\u00fcy\u00fckannesinin kendisine olan zaaf\u0131n\u0131 y\u00f6netmekte olduk\u00e7a usta olan \u00e7ocuk bunu 3 saate \u00e7\u0131karabilmektedir. Bu noktada, \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 \u00f6nleyecek \u015fekilde bir ileti\u015fim kurmak \u00f6nemlidir. Bunun i\u00e7in neler yap\u0131labilir?Hamilelik s\u00fcrecinde, \u00e7ocu\u011fa bakacak olan\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fckanne oldu\u011fu saptand\u0131ktan sonra, kararlar\u0131 birlikte vermek noktas\u0131nda bir konu\u015fma yap\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r.Bak\u0131m verenin(bu durumda b\u00fcy\u00fckanne) ve ebeveynlerin ayn\u0131 dilden konu\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131n, ayn\u0131 \u015feylere hay\u0131r demelerinin, ayn\u0131 kurallar\u0131 koymalar\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011fun geli\u015fimi a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan \u00f6nemi, b\u00fcy\u00fckannelerle konu\u015fulmal\u0131d\u0131r.&#8221;Sen bunu do\u011fru yapam\u0131yorsun anne&#8221;, &#8221;Sen , kurallar\u0131 do\u011fru uygulayam\u0131yorsun&#8221; gibi s\u00f6ylemlerden \u00e7ok, daha birle\u015ftirici , &#8221;Belki de ona hay\u0131r dersen, kural koyarsan seni daha az sevece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsun&#8221; gibi b\u00fcy\u00fckannelerin duygusunu ve kayg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 anlayabilecek c\u00fcmlelerle konu\u015fmak faydal\u0131 olacakt\u0131r.\u00c7ocu\u011fun mutlu olmas\u0131n\u0131n, aile i\u00e7i ileti\u015fimin kalitesiyle ba\u011flant\u0131l\u0131 oldu\u011fu konu\u015fulmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7ocu\u011fun bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flayan b\u00fcy\u00fckannenin de\u00a0aile i\u00e7inde oldu\u011fu g\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcnde tutulmal\u0131d\u0131r. Bu nedenle, aradaki sorunlar\u0131 konu\u015fabilmek \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in sorunlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6zme noktas\u0131nda bir \u00f6rnek olacakt\u0131r.\u0130lk Yay\u0131n Tarihi: 9 Eyl\u00fcl 2013 @ 17:40"},{"@context":"http:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"item":{"@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/#breadcrumbitem","name":"Sevgili Bebek"}},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"item":{"@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/cocuk-ve-buyukanne\/#breadcrumbitem","name":"\u00c7ocuk ve B\u00fcy\u00fckanne (0-12 Ay)"}}]}]