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Aile kavram\u0131 geni\u015fleyerek<a class=\"moretag\" href=\"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/cocuk-bakiminda-buyukanne-ve-buyukbabanin-rolu\/\"> Devam\u0131n\u0131 oku&hellip;<\/a>","datePublished":"2022-06-24","dateModified":"2022-06-24","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/author\/3\/#Person","name":"Sevgili Bebek","url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/author\/3\/","image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/2916d3a243921c20e926d04a237431c8?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/2916d3a243921c20e926d04a237431c8?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"Sevgili Bebek","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/cropped-sbikon.jpg","url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/cropped-sbikon.jpg","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/b\u00fcy\u00fckanne-b\u00fcy\u00fckbaba-\u00e7ocuk.jpg","url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/b\u00fcy\u00fckanne-b\u00fcy\u00fckbaba-\u00e7ocuk.jpg","height":334,"width":500},"url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/cocuk-bakiminda-buyukanne-ve-buyukbabanin-rolu\/","about":["Ebeveyn &amp; Aile"],"wordCount":954,"keywords":["anne baban\u0131n rol\u00fc","anneanne","babaanne","bak\u0131c\u0131 yerine anneanne","bak\u0131c\u0131 yerine babaanne","bak\u0131c\u0131 yerine b\u00fcy\u00fckanne","bebek b\u00fcy\u00fctme y\u00f6ntemleri","b\u00fcy\u00fckanne","b\u00fcy\u00fckanne ve b\u00fcy\u00fckbaban\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar \u00fczerindeki etkisi","b\u00fcy\u00fckbaba","dede"],"articleBody":"Bebe\u011fin do\u011fumunu yaln\u0131zca anne ve baba de\u011fil, pek \u00e7ok ki\u015fi de bekler. Anneanne, dede, teyzeler, amcalara, halalar\u2026 Sab\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131kla beklenen 9 ay sonunda anne ve baba bebeklerine, b\u00fcy\u00fckanne ve dedeler ise torunlar\u0131na kavu\u015furlar.Aile kavram\u0131 geni\u015fleyerek de\u011fi\u015fir. Art\u0131k yaln\u0131zca anne ve baba de\u011fil anne, baba ve bebek olmu\u015ftur. Bir de anne \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorsa, bu sisteme bak\u0131c\u0131 da dahil edilir.Zaman zaman bak\u0131c\u0131 yerine, gerek daha g\u00fcvenilir olmas\u0131 bazen de daha ekonomik olmas\u0131 sebebiyle b\u00fcy\u00fckanneler devreye girer. B\u00fcy\u00fckanne ve b\u00fcy\u00fckbabalar i\u00e7in torunlar\u0131 ne\u015fe kaynaklar\u0131, yineleme ve telafi f\u0131rsat\u0131d\u0131r. B\u00fcy\u00fckanne ve dedeler torunlar\u0131yla birlikte hem kendi \u00e7ocuklar\u0131nda \u00f6zledikleri ve doyamad\u0131klar\u0131 an\u0131lar\u0131 yenileme f\u0131rsat\u0131 bulurlar, hem \u00e7ok fazla sorumluluk almad\u0131klar\u0131 i\u00e7in kendi \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na \u201cHay\u0131r\u201d dedikleri k\u0131s\u0131tlamalardan ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z davran\u0131rlar, hem de zaman\u0131nda kendi \u00e7ocuklar\u0131nda eksik kalm\u0131\u015f, ke\u015fke dediklerini ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirebilirler.Hal b\u00f6yle olunca da, anne ve baban\u0131n \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftirme konusundaki g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fleriyle, b\u00fcy\u00fckanne ve dedelerin g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015flerinde \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar meydana gelmesi ola\u011fand\u0131r.E\u011fer bebe\u011finize b\u00fcy\u00fckanne ve dedesinin bakmas\u0131na karar verdiyseniz, kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 olarak \u015funlar\u0131 unutmamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z:B\u00fcy\u00fckanne ve dedeler, bebe\u011fin bak\u0131m\u0131 ve yeti\u015ftirilme bi\u00e7iminde birinci dereceden sorumlu olan ki\u015finin anne ve babas\u0131 oldu\u011funu unutmamal\u0131d\u0131r.Anne ve babalar ise, b\u00fcy\u00fckanne ve dedelerin torunlar\u0131yla birlikte yeniden hayat bulduklar\u0131n\u0131 ve bulunduklar\u0131 ya\u015f itibariyle torunlar\u0131n\u0131n kendilerine yeniden bir ya\u015fam amac\u0131 verdi\u011fini unutmamal\u0131d\u0131r.Asl\u0131nda bebe\u011fi b\u00fcy\u00fckanne ve dedenin b\u00fcy\u00fctmesi, bebe\u011fin aile bireylerini ve aile kavram\u0131n\u0131 tan\u0131mas\u0131na, ba\u011fl\u0131 oldu\u011fu soy a\u011fac\u0131na kendisini daha yak\u0131n hissetmesine ve aile i\u00e7i sayg\u0131, sevgi kavramlar\u0131n\u0131 daha g\u00fczel \u00f6\u011frenmesine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur. Fakat ya\u015fanabilecek \u00e7eki\u015fmeler, al\u0131nan yeni rollerdeki \u00e7ak\u0131\u015fmalar durumu bir \u00e7\u0131kmaza d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrebilir.Bebek b\u00fcy\u00fctme y\u00f6ntemleri ge\u00e7ti\u011fimiz 15-20 y\u0131l i\u00e7erisinde b\u00fcy\u00fck de\u011fi\u015fimlere u\u011frad\u0131. Anne ve babalar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n bizi b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcrken kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131 y\u00f6ntemler ile \u015fu anda \u00f6nerilenler ayn\u0131 de\u011fil. Doktorunuzun size \u00f6nerdikleri bile anne ve babalar\u0131n\u0131za ters gelebilir. Kendi bilgi ve deneyimlerinden yola \u00e7\u0131karak size \u00f6neriler sunabilir, \u0131srarc\u0131 olabilirler. B\u00f6yle durumlar, gerginli\u011fe en yatk\u0131n durumlard\u0131r. Yapman\u0131z gereken ise, s\u00f6zlerini kesmeden sonuna kadar ilgiyle dinlemek, \u00f6nerilerini anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 fakat yine de doktorun \u00f6nerisini denemek istedi\u011finizi belirtmek olacakt\u0131r.Bir yandan hen\u00fcz yeni anne ve baba olmu\u015f ve rol\u00fcn\u00fcze al\u0131\u015fmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken, di\u011fer yandan da kendi anne ve babalar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011fu olman\u0131z aile i\u00e7indeki yeni rol\u00fcn\u00fcz ve bu role uyum sa\u011flaman\u0131z\u0131 giderek zorla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r.B\u00fcy\u00fckanne ve dedeler i\u00e7in de bu role uyum sa\u011flamak zordur. Kendi \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n anne ve baba oldu\u011fu ger\u00e7e\u011fi hen\u00fcz al\u0131\u015f\u0131ld\u0131k de\u011fildir. Sizleri kendileri yeti\u015ftirdiklerinden, sizden daha bilgili ve tecr\u00fcbeli olduklar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrler. Bu y\u00fczden de ellerine ge\u00e7en her f\u0131rsatta bu bilgi ve deneyimlerini sizlere aktarmak isteyeceklerdir.Kendi \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 yeti\u015ftirme f\u0131rsat\u0131 bulmu\u015f anne ve babalar\u0131n\u0131za sizin de ayn\u0131 f\u0131rsat\u0131 ya\u015famak istedi\u011finizi belirtmeniz, onlar \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 yeti\u015ftirirken d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan gelen m\u00fcdahalelerde hissettiklerini ve rahats\u0131zl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 an\u0131msatman\u0131z, fakat yine de onlar\u0131n tecr\u00fcbe ve birikimlerinin hala de\u011ferli oldu\u011funu g\u00fczel bir uslupla belirtmeniz do\u011fru olacakt\u0131r.B\u00fcy\u00fckanne ve dedeleri\u00a0ile beraberken\u00a0istedi\u011fi her \u015feyi elde eden, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir prens veya prenses gibi bak\u0131lan ufakl\u0131klar, kendi evlerine geldiklerinde ayn\u0131 ilgiyi ve \u015f\u0131mart\u0131lmay\u0131 kendi anne ve babalar\u0131ndan da bekleyeceklerdir. \u00c7ocu\u011funuza, b\u00fcy\u00fckanne ve dedesinin evinde ge\u00e7erli olan kurallar\u0131n kendi evinizde ge\u00e7erli olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, evinizin kurallar\u0131n\u0131n farkl\u0131 oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlatman\u0131z, sizden beklentilerini \u015fekillendirmesine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur. Elbette koydu\u011funuz kurallardaki tav\u0131r ve tutarl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu unutmamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.Unutmay\u0131n, \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 kendiniz de verseniz, bir bak\u0131c\u0131 da verse, anne ve baban\u0131z da verse, her zaman bir hata pay\u0131, yanl\u0131\u015f mesaj olacakt\u0131r. Bebe\u011finizin bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131, ister g\u00fcvenli\u011fi nedeniyle, ister maddi yetersizlik sebebiyle kendi anne ve baban\u0131za verebilmenizin \u00f6nemli bir gerek\u00e7esi daha\u00a0vard\u0131r: sizi onlar yeti\u015ftirdi ve yeti\u015ftirme metodlar\u0131ndan, size verdi\u011fi bak\u0131m ve e\u011fitimden memnunsunuz. Aksi halde maddi yetersizlik veya ba\u015fka hi\u00e7bir sebep size \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu g\u00fcvenmedi\u011finiz kimselere emanet ettiremez.\u0130lk Yay\u0131n Tarihi: 19 Haziran 2016 @ 15:39"},{"@context":"http:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"item":{"@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/#breadcrumbitem","name":"Sevgili Bebek"}},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"item":{"@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/cocuk-bakiminda-buyukanne-ve-buyukbabanin-rolu\/#breadcrumbitem","name":"\u00c7ocuk Bak\u0131m\u0131nda B\u00fcy\u00fckanne ve B\u00fcy\u00fckbaban\u0131n Rol\u00fc"}}]}]