[{"@context":"http:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/cocugunuzu-kiyaslamayin\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/cocugunuzu-kiyaslamayin\/","headline":"\u00c7ocu\u011funuzu K\u0131yaslamay\u0131n","name":"\u00c7ocu\u011funuzu K\u0131yaslamay\u0131n","description":"K\u0131yaslanmak sadece \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in de\u011fil yeti\u015fkinler i\u00e7in de \u00e7ok k\u00f6t\u00fc bir his. \u015e\u00f6yle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn e\u015finiz kom\u015funuzun evinin ne kadar temiz oldu\u011funu ve sizin evinizin o kadar temiz olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6ylese ne hissedersiniz? S\u00fcp\u00fcrgeyi eline tutu\u015fturursunuz herhalde.<a class=\"moretag\" href=\"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/cocugunuzu-kiyaslamayin\/\"> Devam\u0131n\u0131 oku&hellip;<\/a>","datePublished":"2022-08-14","dateModified":"2022-08-14","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/author\/3\/#Person","name":"Sevgili Bebek","url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/author\/3\/","image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/2916d3a243921c20e926d04a237431c8?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/2916d3a243921c20e926d04a237431c8?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"Sevgili Bebek","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/cropped-sbikon.jpg","url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/cropped-sbikon.jpg","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/shutterstock_325087436.jpg","url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/shutterstock_325087436.jpg","height":667,"width":1000},"url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/cocugunuzu-kiyaslamayin\/","about":["Zihinsel &amp; Ruhsal Geli\u015fim"],"wordCount":509,"keywords":["\u00c7ocu\u011fu k\u0131yaslamak","\u00c7ocu\u011fun ruhsal geli\u015fimi","\u00c7ocu\u011funuzu k\u0131yaslamay\u0131n","\u00e7ocuk e\u011fitimi","\u00c7ocuk psikolojsi","\u00c7ocuklar\u0131 k\u0131yaslamak"],"articleBody":"K\u0131yaslanmak sadece \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in de\u011fil yeti\u015fkinler i\u00e7in de \u00e7ok k\u00f6t\u00fc bir his. \u015e\u00f6yle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn e\u015finiz kom\u015funuzun evinin ne kadar temiz oldu\u011funu ve sizin evinizin o kadar temiz olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6ylese ne hissedersiniz? S\u00fcp\u00fcrgeyi eline tutu\u015fturursunuz herhalde. Ya da e\u015finiz arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131n e\u015finin ona \u00e7ok g\u00fczel bir y\u00fcz\u00fck ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ama sizin ona hi\u00e7 hediye almad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 s\u00f6ylerse ne hissedersiniz?\u00c7ocu\u011funuzu ba\u015fka bir \u00e7ocukla k\u0131yaslad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda tam da verdi\u011fimiz \u00f6rneklerde hissettiklerinizi hissediyor. Yetersizlik, sevgi eksikli\u011fi, \u00f6fke&#8230; Kimse \u00e7ocu\u011funun bu duygular\u0131 ya\u015famas\u0131n\u0131 istemez. Fakat fark etmeden kullan\u0131lan yanl\u0131\u015f kelimeler \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in olduk\u00e7a k\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 olabilir.Hen\u00fcz bebekken boy ve kilo ile k\u0131yaslanmayan ba\u015flayan \u00e7ocuklar, b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck\u00e7e yapt\u0131klar\u0131 yaramazl\u0131klarla, yedi\u011fi\/ yemedi\u011fi yemeklerle ve daha ilerde okuldaki ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131yla k\u0131yaslan\u0131rlar. Ara\u015ft\u0131rmalara g\u00f6re ebeveynler \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na en \u00e7ok okul konusunda k\u0131yaslama yap\u0131yorlar. K\u0131yaslad\u0131klar\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar da \u00e7o\u011funlukla kom\u015funun \u00e7ocu\u011fu, okuldaki ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 s\u0131n\u0131f arkada\u015f\u0131 ve akraba \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 oluyor.K\u0131yaslanmak \u00e7ocu\u011fun yetersiz oldu\u011funu hissetmesine sebep olur. Bu da zamanla \u00f6zg\u00fcvenini sarsar. Ayr\u0131ca her zaman s\u00f6yledi\u011fimiz gibi \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ko\u015fulsuz sevmeliyiz. Fakat k\u0131yas yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda \u00e7ocu\u011fumuz yeterince sevilmedi\u011fini hisseder. Bu duygular \u00e7ocu\u011fun \u00f6zg\u00fcveninin sars\u0131lmas\u0131na ve zamanla i\u00e7e kapan\u0131k bir birey olmas\u0131na sebep olur.K\u0131yaslanan \u00e7ocuklarda iki davran\u0131\u015f geli\u015fir. Ya ailesinin k\u0131yas yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 konuda ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olmak i\u00e7in t\u00fcm g\u00fcc\u00fcyle u\u011fra\u015f\u0131r ya da tam tersi nas\u0131lsa yapamam diyerek ailesini cezaland\u0131rmak amac\u0131yla tamamen vaz ge\u00e7er. \u0130lk durum yani \u00e7ocu\u011fun t\u00fcm g\u00fcc\u00fc ile u\u011fra\u015farak ba\u015far\u0131y\u0131 yakalamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 kula\u011fa iyi gibi g\u00f6z\u00fckse de zamanla bunun da do\u011fru olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ortaya \u00e7\u0131kacakt\u0131r. \u015e\u00f6yle ki \u00f6rne\u011fin okuldaki arkada\u015f\u0131yla k\u0131yaslanan \u00e7ocuk \u00e7ok \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131 ve onu ge\u00e7ti. Fakat onu ge\u00e7se bir ba\u015fka arkada\u015f\u0131 var. S\u00fcrekli ailesini memnun etmek i\u00e7in kendi i\u00e7inde bir yar\u0131\u015f i\u00e7inde olacak. Zamanla \u00e7ocuk b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck\u00e7e bu davran\u0131\u015f saplant\u0131 haline gelerek kendisine rakip g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ve ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ki\u015filere kar\u015f\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015f davran\u0131\u015flar yapmas\u0131na sebep olabilir.K\u0131yaslanan \u00e7ocuklar ya i\u00e7e kapan\u0131k ve izole bir hayat\u0131 tercih ederler ya da tam tersi agresif ve sald\u0131rgan olmaya meyilli olurlar.\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olmas\u0131 i\u00e7in y\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 de\u011fil yap\u0131c\u0131 olmal\u0131y\u0131z. Onlar\u0131 iyi ve k\u00f6t\u00fc zamanlar\u0131nda sevdi\u011fimizi, sevgimizin ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131 ile alakal\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hissettirmeliyiz.\u0130lk Yay\u0131n Tarihi: 4 A\u011fustos 2017 @ 18:51"},{"@context":"http:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"item":{"@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/#breadcrumbitem","name":"Sevgili Bebek"}},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"item":{"@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/cocugunuzu-kiyaslamayin\/#breadcrumbitem","name":"\u00c7ocu\u011funuzu K\u0131yaslamay\u0131n"}}]}]