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K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131zla\u015fmaya duydu\u011fu istek, hen\u00fcz geli\u015fen dil becerileri nedeniyle kendisini ifade edememesi ve d\u00fcrt\u00fclerini tam olarak kontrol<a class=\"moretag\" href=\"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/cocugunuz-isiriyor-mu\/\"> Devam\u0131n\u0131 oku&hellip;<\/a>","datePublished":"2022-10-16","dateModified":"2022-10-16","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/author\/3\/#Person","name":"Sevgili Bebek","url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/author\/3\/","image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/2916d3a243921c20e926d04a237431c8?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/2916d3a243921c20e926d04a237431c8?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"Sevgili Bebek","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/cropped-sbikon.jpg","url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/cropped-sbikon.jpg","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/\u00c7ocuklarda-Di\u015f-G\u0131c\u0131rdatma.jpg","url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/\u00c7ocuklarda-Di\u015f-G\u0131c\u0131rdatma.jpg","height":667,"width":1000},"url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/cocugunuz-isiriyor-mu\/","about":["Zihinsel &amp; Ruhsal Geli\u015fim"],"wordCount":903,"keywords":["\u00e7ocu\u011fum \u0131s\u0131r\u0131yor","\u00e7ocu\u011fum sald\u0131rgan","\u00c7ocuk Psikolojisi","\u00c7ocuklarda \u0131s\u0131rma","\u00c7ocuklarda vurma","sald\u0131rgan \u00e7ocuklar"],"articleBody":"K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocu\u011funun \u0131s\u0131rmas\u0131 bir \u00e7ok ebeveyn i\u00e7in \u015fok edicidir. Asl\u0131nda \u0131s\u0131r\u0131lmayan ve \u0131s\u0131rmayan bir \u00e7ocuk yoktur diyebiliriz. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131zla\u015fmaya duydu\u011fu istek, hen\u00fcz geli\u015fen dil becerileri nedeniyle kendisini ifade edememesi ve d\u00fcrt\u00fclerini tam olarak kontrol edememesi, \u0131s\u0131rma ve vurma gibi baz\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 sergilemesine sebep olabilir. \u00c7ocukluk d\u00f6neminde belli \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fclerde \u0131s\u0131rma ve vurma gibi davran\u0131\u015flar kabul edilebilir olsa da, ebeveynlerin bu davran\u0131\u015flara tepkisiz kalmas\u0131 gerekmez. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131na yapt\u0131klar\u0131 bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n yanl\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funu anlatmalar\u0131 ve duygular\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l do\u011fru bi\u00e7imde ifade edebilece\u011fini \u00f6\u011fretmeleri gerekir.\u00c7ocuklar Neden Is\u0131r\u0131r?\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n \u0131s\u0131rmas\u0131n\u0131n birden fazla sebebi olabilir.Bir ya\u015f\u0131ndan k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuklarda g\u00f6r\u00fclen \u0131s\u0131rma davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n sebebi d\u00fcnyalar\u0131n\u0131 tan\u0131makt\u0131r. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuklar nesneleri tan\u0131mak i\u00e7in s\u0131k s\u0131k a\u011f\u0131zlar\u0131na g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr ve \u0131s\u0131r\u0131rlar. Di\u015f \u00e7\u0131karma d\u00f6nemlerinde ise damaklar\u0131 ka\u015f\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in ellerine ge\u00e7en her \u015feyi \u0131s\u0131r\u0131rlar. Bu ya\u015f gruplar\u0131n\u0131n \u0131s\u0131rmas\u0131 endi\u015feye sebep olacak bir sorun de\u011fildir.Fakat \u00e7ocuk 1 ya\u015f\u0131ndan b\u00fcy\u00fckse durum biraz daha farkl\u0131d\u0131r. Elbette 1 ya\u015f\u0131ndan b\u00fcy\u00fck ve \u0131s\u0131ran bir \u00e7ocuk k\u00f6t\u00fc huylu olarak de\u011ferlendiremez. Bu \u00e7ocuklar tepki g\u00f6sterebilmek i\u00e7in \u0131s\u0131rmay\u0131 kullanabilirler, hap\u015f\u0131rmak gibi do\u011fal bir tepki olabilir.Ebeveynlerin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131dan bakabilmeleri \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir. \u015e\u00f6yle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn; bizler kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdaki ki\u015filere bir \u015fey anlatmak, itiraz etmek istedi\u011fimizde kelimelerimizi, mimiklerimizi kullanabiliriz. Bu y\u00fczden \u0131s\u0131rmak ve vurmak gibi davran\u0131\u015flara ihtiyac\u0131m\u0131z yoktur. Ancak kelime haznesi geli\u015fmemi\u015f k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in kendini ifade edememek bazen o kadar can s\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 bir hal alabilir ki, \u00e7ocuk da yapabilece\u011fi en pratik \u015feyi yapar ve \u0131s\u0131r\u0131r.\u00c7ocuklar genellikle, sinirli olduklar\u0131nda,\u00a0korktuklar\u0131nda, \u00e7ok s\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131klar\u0131nda, ba\u015farmak istediklerini ba\u015faramad\u0131klar\u0131nda, mutsuz olduklar\u0131nda \u0131s\u0131r\u0131rlar. Bazen \u0131s\u0131rd\u0131klar\u0131nda kar\u015f\u0131lar\u0131ndaki ki\u015finin ne tepki verece\u011fini merak ettikleri i\u00e7in de \u0131s\u0131rabilirler. Hatta inanmas\u0131 g\u00fc\u00e7 olsa da baz\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar \u00e7ok sevdikleri ki\u015fileri de \u0131s\u0131r\u0131rlar.Is\u0131rmak Ne Zaman Problem Olur?\u00d6nemli olan \u0131s\u0131rma davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n s\u00fcrekli hale gelmemesi ya da s\u00fcrekli ayn\u0131 ki\u015fiyi \u0131s\u0131rmamakt\u0131r. Is\u0131rma aral\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n s\u0131kla\u015fmas\u0131 da bir problemdir.Is\u0131rma davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 hem \u0131s\u0131r\u0131lan ki\u015fi hem de \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in problemdir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u0131s\u0131r\u0131lan \u00e7ocuk akranlar\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan d\u0131\u015flan\u0131r.Ebeveynler Neler Yapabilir?E\u011fer \u00e7ocu\u011funuz bir ya\u015f\u0131ndan k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fckse yapabilece\u011finiz pek bir \u015fey yok, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu \u00e7ocu\u011fun geli\u015fiminin do\u011fal bir par\u00e7as\u0131d\u0131r. Ancak sizi \u0131s\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc asarak \u2018ac\u0131d\u0131\u2019 gibi ifadelerle yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 hareketin yanl\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funu anlamas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flayabilirsiniz.\u00c7ocu\u011funuz 1 ya\u015f\u0131ndan b\u00fcy\u00fckse;Sakin kalman\u0131z \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir. Ba\u011f\u0131rmak ve cezaland\u0131rmak asla \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm de\u011fildir. \u00c7ocu\u011funuz \u0131s\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131nda can\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n yand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, bu yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 hareketin yanl\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funu ve tekrarlamamas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini sakin ve kararl\u0131 bir bi\u00e7imde a\u00e7\u0131klamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun \u0131s\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 ki\u015fiye yard\u0131m etmelisiniz. \u00d6rne\u011fin \u0131s\u0131r\u0131lan yer kan\u0131yorsa temizleyebilirsiniz. Is\u0131r\u0131lan ki\u015fi bir \u00e7ocuksa kuca\u011f\u0131n\u0131za al\u0131p sakinle\u015ftirebilirsiniz. Bunlar\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun \u00f6n\u00fcnde yaparak zor durumdaki ki\u015filere yard\u0131m edilmesi gerekti\u011fini anlatabilirsiniz.\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun duygular\u0131n\u0131 anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 belirtmelisiniz. \u00c7ocu\u011funuza arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131 \u0131s\u0131racak kadar \u00f6fkelendi\u011fi i\u00e7in \u00fczg\u00fcn oldu\u011funuzu, onun zor an\u0131nda yan\u0131nda olamay\u0131p, yard\u0131mc\u0131 olamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z i\u00e7in \u00fczg\u00fcn oldu\u011funuzu belirtmelisiniz.Ard\u0131ndan \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun neler hissetti\u011fini \u00f6\u011frenin.\u00a0\u00c7ok k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuklar genellikle duygular\u0131n\u0131 ifade edemezler, ancak \u00e7ocu\u011funuz sebebi a\u00e7\u0131klayabiliyorsa ne ala. Yine de e\u011fer \u00e7ocu\u011funuz durumu a\u00e7\u0131klayamasa da siz konu\u015farak, sakince a\u00e7\u0131klayarak ortamdaki gerilimi alabilirsiniz.\u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcm sunun.\u00a0\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun neden \u0131s\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 art\u0131k \u00f6\u011frendi\u011finize g\u00f6re, kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 benzer bir durumda \u0131s\u0131rmak yerine ne gibi tepki vermesi gerekti\u011fini ona a\u00e7\u0131klay\u0131n. \u00d6rne\u011fin arkada\u015f\u0131 oyunca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 vermek istememi\u015fse, s\u0131rayla oynayabileceklerini a\u00e7\u0131klay\u0131n.\u00d6rne\u011fin siz i\u015fe ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z i\u00e7in \u0131s\u0131ran bir \u00e7ocu\u011funuz var. Elbette \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun \u0131s\u0131rmay\u0131 b\u0131rakmas\u0131 i\u00e7in i\u015finizi b\u0131rakamazs\u0131n\u0131z. Bu gibi durumlarda \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun hatal\u0131 bir davran\u0131\u015f sergiledi\u011fini ona belli etmeli, \u0131s\u0131r\u0131lan ki\u015fi ile ilgilenmeli, ard\u0131ndan \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla konu\u015farak onu anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klamal\u0131 ve \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm aramal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.Yine de t\u00fcm \u00f6nlemlerinize ra\u011fmen \u0131s\u0131rma davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 devam diyor ve hatta art\u0131yorsa, bir \u00e7ocuk psikolo\u011funa dan\u0131\u015fman\u0131z faydal\u0131 olacakt\u0131r.\u0130lk Yay\u0131n Tarihi: 24 Temmuz 2018 @ 14:55"},{"@context":"http:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"item":{"@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/#breadcrumbitem","name":"Sevgili Bebek"}},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"item":{"@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/cocugunuz-isiriyor-mu\/#breadcrumbitem","name":"\u00c7ocu\u011funuz Is\u0131r\u0131yor Mu?"}}]}]