[{"@context":"http:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/cocugum-isiriyor\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/cocugum-isiriyor\/","headline":"\u00c7ocu\u011fum Is\u0131r\u0131yor!","name":"\u00c7ocu\u011fum Is\u0131r\u0131yor!","description":"K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun sizi veya bir arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131 \u0131s\u0131rmas\u0131 \u015fok edici gelse de asl\u0131nda normal bir durumdur.\u00a0 \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131zla\u015fmaya duydu\u011fu a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 istek, geli\u015fmekte olan dil becerileri sebebiyle kendisini tam olarak ifade edememesi ve d\u00fcrt\u00fclerini hen\u00fcz tam olarak<a class=\"moretag\" href=\"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/cocugum-isiriyor\/\"> Devam\u0131n\u0131 oku&hellip;<\/a>","datePublished":"2023-10-05","dateModified":"2023-10-05","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/author\/3\/#Person","name":"Sevgili Bebek","url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/author\/3\/","image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/2916d3a243921c20e926d04a237431c8?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/2916d3a243921c20e926d04a237431c8?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"Sevgili Bebek","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/cropped-sbikon.jpg","url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/cropped-sbikon.jpg","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/shutterstock_53055760.jpg","url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/shutterstock_53055760.jpg","height":667,"width":1000},"url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/cocugum-isiriyor\/","about":["Zihinsel &amp; Ruhsal Geli\u015fim"],"wordCount":1082,"keywords":["\u00e7ocu\u011fum \u0131s\u0131r\u0131yor","\u00e7ocu\u011fun \u0131s\u0131rmas\u0131n\u0131 engellemek","\u00e7ocu\u011fun neden \u0131s\u0131r\u0131yor","\u00e7ocuk davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131","\u00c7ocuk Geli\u015fimi","\u00e7ocuklar neden \u0131s\u0131r\u0131r","\u0131s\u0131ran \u00e7ocuk","sinirli \u00e7ocuk"],"articleBody":"K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun sizi veya bir arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131 \u0131s\u0131rmas\u0131 \u015fok edici gelse de asl\u0131nda normal bir durumdur.\u00a0 \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131zla\u015fmaya duydu\u011fu a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 istek, geli\u015fmekte olan dil becerileri sebebiyle kendisini tam olarak ifade edememesi ve d\u00fcrt\u00fclerini hen\u00fcz tam olarak kontrol edememesi sonucu \u0131s\u0131rma, vurma, tekme atma gibi davran\u0131\u015flar sergilemeleri normaldir. Hatta \u0131s\u0131r\u0131lmayan veya \u0131s\u0131rmayan bir \u00e7ocuk yoktur bile diyebiliriz.Belli \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fclerde \u0131s\u0131rma veya vurma gibi davran\u0131\u015flar \u00e7ocukluk d\u00f6neminde kabul edilebilir. Ancak bu sizin olaya tepkisiz kalman\u0131z\u0131 gerektirmez. Yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n do\u011fru olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve duygular\u0131n\u0131 do\u011fru bir \u015fekilde nas\u0131l ifade edebilece\u011fini \u00e7ocu\u011funuza \u00f6\u011fretmeniz gerekir.\u00c7ocuklar neden \u0131s\u0131r\u0131r?Bir ya\u015f\u0131ndan k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n d\u00fcnyalar\u0131n\u0131 tan\u0131mak i\u00e7in s\u0131k\u00e7a yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir davran\u0131\u015ft\u0131r nesneleri a\u011f\u0131zlar\u0131na g\u00f6t\u00fcrmek ve \u0131s\u0131rmak. \u00a0Hele bir de di\u015f \u00e7\u0131karma d\u00f6nemlerinde iseler damaklar\u0131 ka\u015f\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in ellerine ge\u00e7en her \u015feyi i\u015ftahla \u0131s\u0131r\u0131rlar. Bu ya\u015f grubu \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in \u0131s\u0131rmak endi\u015fe uyand\u0131racak bir davran\u0131\u015f de\u011fildir.Bir ya\u015f\u0131ndan b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7ocuklarda g\u00f6r\u00fclen \u0131s\u0131rma hareketinde ise durum biraz daha farkl\u0131d\u0131r. Ancak yine de 1 ya\u015f\u0131ndan b\u00fcy\u00fck ve \u0131s\u0131ran bir \u00e7ocu\u011fu k\u00f6t\u00fc huylu olarak de\u011ferlendirmek yanl\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in \u0131s\u0131rmak \u00e7e\u015fitli sebeplere tepki g\u00f6sterebilmek i\u00e7in ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirdi\u011fi, hap\u015f\u0131rmak gibi istem d\u0131\u015f\u0131 bir harekettir.Genellikle \u00e7ocuklar duygusal sebeplerle \u0131s\u0131r\u0131rlar. \u015e\u00f6yle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim; Bizler yeti\u015fkin olarak, kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdaki ki\u015fiyle uyu\u015famad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z konularda, burnunu \u0131s\u0131rm\u0131yor veya tekme atm\u0131yoruz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc s\u00f6zc\u00fcklerimiz var ve kendimizi ifade edebiliyoruz. Ancak kelime haznesi tam olarak geli\u015fmemi\u015f, derdini anlatamayan ufakl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z i\u00e7in bazen durum o kadar can s\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 hale gelebilir ki, kendini ifade etmek i\u00e7in elinden gelen en pratik \u015feyi uygular ve \u0131s\u0131r\u0131r.\u00c7ocuklar genellikle, sinirli olduklar\u0131nda, korktuklar\u0131nda, \u00e7ok s\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131klar\u0131nda, ba\u015farmak istediklerini ba\u015faramad\u0131klar\u0131nda, mutsuz olduklar\u0131nda \u0131s\u0131r\u0131rlar. Bazen \u0131s\u0131rd\u0131klar\u0131nda kar\u015f\u0131lar\u0131ndaki ki\u015finin ne tepki verece\u011fini merak ettikleri i\u00e7in de \u0131s\u0131rabilirler. Hatta inanmas\u0131 g\u00fc\u00e7 olsa da baz\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar \u00e7ok sevdikleri ki\u015fileri de \u0131s\u0131r\u0131rlar.Is\u0131rmak ne zaman problem haline gelir?Is\u0131rmak elbette \u0131s\u0131r\u0131lan ki\u015fi i\u00e7in o anda problem olmu\u015ftur. Ancak her \u00e7ocu\u011fun \u0131s\u0131rabilece\u011fini unutmamak gerekir. \u00d6nemli olan bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n s\u00fcrekli hale gelmemesi. Ayr\u0131ca s\u00fcrekli ayn\u0131 ki\u015fiyi \u0131s\u0131rmak da bir problemdir. Is\u0131rma aral\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n s\u0131kla\u015fmas\u0131 da bir problemdir. Is\u0131rmak hem \u00e7ocu\u011funuz hem de kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndaki ki\u015filer i\u00e7in bir problemdir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocu\u011funuz da \u0131s\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00e7evresindeki ki\u015filer taraf\u0131ndan d\u0131\u015flanabilir, \u00f6rne\u011fin kre\u015fteki arkada\u015flar\u0131.Is\u0131ran \u00c7ocuklar \u0130\u00e7in Neler Yapabiliriz?\u00c7ocu\u011funuz bir ya\u015f\u0131ndan k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fckse; Bir ya\u015f\u0131ndan k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in asl\u0131nda fazla yap\u0131labilecek bir \u015fey yok. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocu\u011funuz yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n yanl\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funu ve s\u00f6ylediklerinizi tam olarak anlayamaz. Anca \u0131s\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman \u201ca ac\u0131d\u0131\u201d diyerek y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc buru\u015fturman\u0131z zamanla yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 hareketin yanl\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funu anlamas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flar.\u00c7ocu\u011funuz bir ya\u015f\u0131ndan b\u00fcy\u00fckse; \u0130lk olarak sakin kalman\u0131z \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli, \u00e7ocu\u011fa asla ba\u011f\u0131rarak tepki g\u00f6stermemelisiniz. Ayn\u0131 zamanda cezalar da cayd\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 olmaz. \u00c7ocu\u011funuz zaten kendisini anlatamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in, anla\u015f\u0131lmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in \u0131s\u0131r\u0131l\u0131rken bir de ebeveyni taraf\u0131ndan a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 tepki g\u00f6r\u00fcrse, kendisini daha da k\u00f6t\u00fc hissedecek. Bu y\u00fczden \u0131s\u0131r\u0131nca ac\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n yanl\u0131\u015f bir davran\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funu, tekrarlamamas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini sakin ancak kararl\u0131 bir \u015fekilde a\u00e7\u0131klamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun \u0131s\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 ki\u015fiye yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Is\u0131r\u0131lan yeri y\u0131kamal\u0131, kan\u0131yorsa ilk yard\u0131m yapmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Is\u0131r\u0131lan ki\u015fi bir \u00e7ocuksa kuca\u011f\u0131n\u0131za alarak sakinle\u015ftirebilirsiniz. Bunlar\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun \u00f6n\u00fcnde yaparak zor durumda olan ki\u015filere yard\u0131m edilmesi gerekti\u011fini \u00f6\u011fretirsiniz.\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun duygular\u0131n\u0131 anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 belirtmelisiniz. \u00c7ocu\u011funuza arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131 \u0131s\u0131racak kadar \u00f6fkelendi\u011fi i\u00e7in \u00fczg\u00fcn oldu\u011funuzu, onun zor an\u0131nda yan\u0131nda olamay\u0131p, yard\u0131mc\u0131 olamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z i\u00e7in \u00fczg\u00fcn oldu\u011funuzu belirtmelisiniz.Ard\u0131ndan \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun neler hissetti\u011fini \u00f6\u011frenin. \u00c7ok k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuklar genellikle duygular\u0131n\u0131 ifade edemezler, ancak \u00e7ocu\u011funuz sebebi a\u00e7\u0131klayabiliyorsa ne ala. Yine de e\u011fer \u00e7ocu\u011funuz durumu a\u00e7\u0131klayamasa da siz konu\u015farak, sakince a\u00e7\u0131klayarak ortamdaki gerilimi alabilirsiniz.\u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcm sunun. \u00c7ocu\u011funuzun neden \u0131s\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 art\u0131k \u00f6\u011frendi\u011finize g\u00f6re, kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 benzer bir durumda \u0131s\u0131rmak yerine ne gibi tepki vermesi gerekti\u011fini ona a\u00e7\u0131klay\u0131n. \u00d6rne\u011fin arkada\u015f\u0131 oyunca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 vermek istememi\u015fse, s\u0131rayla oynayabileceklerini a\u00e7\u0131klay\u0131n.Ancak \u00e7ocu\u011funuz \u00f6rne\u011fin siz i\u015fe ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z i\u00e7in bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 sergilemeye ba\u015flad\u0131. \u00c7ocu\u011funuz \u0131s\u0131rmas\u0131n diye i\u015fi b\u0131rakamazs\u0131n\u0131z. Bu ve benzeri durumlarda, \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun hatal\u0131 bir davran\u0131\u015f g\u00f6sterdi\u011fini ona belli etmeli, \u0131s\u0131r\u0131lan ki\u015fi ile ilgilenmeli, ard\u0131ndan \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla konu\u015farak onu anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klamal\u0131 ve \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm aramal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Elbette i\u015fi b\u0131rakman\u0131z s\u00f6z konusu olmayabilir. Ancak hafta sonunda birlikte baz\u0131 aktiviteler planlayarak bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7ebilirsiniz.Yine de t\u00fcm \u00f6nlemlerinize ra\u011fmen \u0131s\u0131rma davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 devam diyor ve hatta art\u0131yorsa, bir \u00e7ocuk psikolo\u011funa dan\u0131\u015fman\u0131z faydal\u0131 olacakt\u0131r.\u0130lk Yay\u0131n Tarihi: 24 Temmuz 2016 @ 15:36"},{"@context":"http:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"item":{"@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/#breadcrumbitem","name":"Sevgili Bebek"}},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"item":{"@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/cocugum-isiriyor\/#breadcrumbitem","name":"\u00c7ocu\u011fum Is\u0131r\u0131yor!"}}]}]