[{"@context":"http:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/buyumus-de-kuculmus\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/buyumus-de-kuculmus\/","headline":"B\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f De K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f","name":"B\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f De K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f","description":"\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n olgun ve akl\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131nda olmas\u0131 elbette ho\u015fumuza gider ancak yine de aile i\u00e7indeki rollerinizi de\u011fi\u015fmek istemezsiniz de\u011fil mi? Son y\u0131llarda ebeveynlerin biraz memnun biraz da muzdarip oldu\u011fu bir konu b\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f de k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f \u00e7ocuklar. \u00dclkemizde<a class=\"moretag\" href=\"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/buyumus-de-kuculmus\/\"> Devam\u0131n\u0131 oku&hellip;<\/a>","datePublished":"2022-01-06","dateModified":"2022-01-06","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/author\/3\/#Person","name":"Sevgili Bebek","url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/author\/3\/","image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/2916d3a243921c20e926d04a237431c8?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/2916d3a243921c20e926d04a237431c8?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"Sevgili Bebek","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/cropped-sbikon.jpg","url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/cropped-sbikon.jpg","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/buyumus-de-kuculmus1.jpg","url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/buyumus-de-kuculmus1.jpg","height":450,"width":665},"url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/buyumus-de-kuculmus\/","about":["Zihinsel &amp; Ruhsal Geli\u015fim"],"wordCount":698,"keywords":["B\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f De K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f","\u00c7ocu\u011fu Gelece\u011fe Haz\u0131rlamak","\u00c7ocu\u011fu Ile Arkada\u015f Olan Ebeveynler","\u00c7ocuk Ile Arkada\u015f Olmak","\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n Ebeveyn Gibi Davranmas\u0131","\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n Yeti\u015fkin Gibi Davranmas\u0131","Ebeveyn \u00c7ocuk Ili\u015fkisi","Ebeveyn \u00c7ocuk Ili\u015fkisindeki S\u0131n\u0131rlar","Ebeveynlerin \u00c7ocuk Gibi Davranmas\u0131","Otorite Kavram\u0131n\u0131n \u00d6\u011fretilmesi","Sorumluluk Y\u00fcklemek"],"articleBody":"\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n olgun ve akl\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131nda olmas\u0131 elbette ho\u015fumuza gider ancak yine de aile i\u00e7indeki rollerinizi de\u011fi\u015fmek istemezsiniz de\u011fil mi? Son y\u0131llarda ebeveynlerin biraz memnun biraz da muzdarip oldu\u011fu bir konu b\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f de k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f \u00e7ocuklar. \u00dclkemizde ve d\u00fcnyada bir \u00e7ok ebeveyn, \u00e7ocu\u011fu hakk\u0131nda, \u00e7ocu\u011funun ebeveyn gibi davrand\u0131\u011f\u0131 konusunda rahats\u0131z. Fakat bir yandan da \u00e7ocu\u011funun bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n zeka belirtisi oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc i\u00e7in duruma ses \u00e7\u0131karm\u0131yor. Peki \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ebeveyn gibi davranmas\u0131 sak\u0131ncal\u0131 olabilir mi?&nbsp;\u00d6ncelikle \u00e7ocu\u011fun ebeveyn gibi davranmas\u0131ndan ne kast etti\u011fimizi a\u00e7\u0131klayal\u0131m. \u00c7ocu\u011fun s\u0131n\u0131r\u0131n\u0131n olmamas\u0131, yani anne ve babas\u0131na, b\u00fcy\u00fcklerine sayg\u0131s\u0131zca davranmas\u0131, kaba s\u00f6zler sarf etmesi, ebeveynlerinin s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc dinlememesi \u00f6rnek verilebilir.\u00c7ocu\u011funun ak\u0131ll\u0131 olmas\u0131, her soruya verecek bir cevab\u0131n\u0131n olmas\u0131, bir yeti\u015fkin gibi zaman\u0131nda haz\u0131rlan\u0131p evden \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131 gibi \u015feyler zeka belirtisi olarak d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fc i\u00e7in bir \u00e7ok ebeveynin ho\u015funa gider. Ancak sorun \u015fu ki; \u00e7ocu\u011fun ya\u015f\u0131na uygun olarak ya\u015famas\u0131, ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131n gereklerini yerine getirmesi gerekir.&nbsp;S\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131n olmamas\u0131 \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in g\u00fcvensizlik hissi olu\u015fturur. Yani, \u00e7ocu\u011fumuzu \u00f6zg\u00fcr olarak yeti\u015ftirmek isterken, \u00e7ocu\u011fun kendini g\u00fcvensiz ve korunaks\u0131z hissetmesine sebep olabiliriz.&nbsp;\u00c7ocu\u011funun yeti\u015fkin gibi davranmas\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k olarak \u00e7ocu\u011fuyla arkada\u015f olmak i\u00e7in \u00e7ocuk\u00e7a konu\u015fan, \u00e7ocuk taklidi yapan, \u00e7ocuksu davran\u0131\u015flar sergileyen aileler, maalesef \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n kendilerine olan sayg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 zedeleyebilir. Bu gibi ebeveyn-\u00e7ocuk ili\u015fkisindeki s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n a\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011fun ebeveynlerini ciddiye almas\u0131n\u0131 engelleyerek ve \u00e7ocu\u011fun g\u00fcven duymas\u0131 gereken ki\u015fiye g\u00fcveninin sars\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131, do\u011fal olarak da kendisini yaln\u0131z ve korunmas\u0131z hissetmesine sebep olabilir.&nbsp;Olmas\u0131 gereken, ebeveynlerin&nbsp;yeti\u015fkin gibi davran\u0131p, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 ile arkada\u015f gibi oyun oynamalar\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7ocu\u011fun bir \u00e7ok arkada\u015f\u0131 olacakt\u0131r elbet, as\u0131l ihtiyac\u0131 olan ise g\u00fcvenilir ebeveynlerdir.\u00c7ocu\u011fa her konuda se\u00e7im hakk\u0131 vermek de bir di\u011fer yanl\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00d6rne\u011fin ne al\u0131naca\u011f\u0131, hangi kre\u015f veya \u00f6\u011fretmene sahip olmak istedi\u011fi gibi konularda karar\u0131 tamamen \u00e7ocu\u011fa b\u0131rakmak \u00e7ok da sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 olmayabilir.&nbsp;Kre\u015f ve \u00f6\u011fretmen \u00f6rne\u011finden yola \u00e7\u0131karsak, elbette \u00e7ocu\u011fumuz kre\u015finden belirli sebeplerle memnun olmayabilir ya da \u00f6\u011fretmenini de\u011fi\u015ftirmek isteyebilir. \u00c7ocu\u011fun g\u00f6sterdi\u011fi hakl\u0131 sebeplerle ona destek olmal\u0131y\u0131z Ancak ilk a\u015famada se\u00e7im yaparken bu karar\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde ebeveynlerin almas\u0131 gerekir. Aksi halde \u00e7ocu\u011fa gereksiz bir sorumluluk y\u00fcklemi\u015f oluruz. Sorumlulu\u011fun geli\u015fmesi g\u00fczel bir \u015feydir, fakat bunu \u00e7ocu\u011fun ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131n gereklerine g\u00f6re uygun konularda uygulamal\u0131y\u0131z.\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n s\u0131n\u0131rs\u0131z imkana sahip olmas\u0131 ve otorite kavram\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenememesi ileride okul hayat\u0131nda sorunlara yol a\u00e7ar. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocuk evinin d\u0131\u015f\u0131ndaki hayatta s\u0131n\u0131rlar oldu\u011funu g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde, bunlar\u0131 kabullenmekte zorlan\u0131r, otorite kavram\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenememesi ise hem okul hayat\u0131nda hem de gelecekte i\u015f hayat\u0131nda uyumsuzluk sorunlar\u0131na yol a\u00e7ar. Bu sebeple \u00e7ocu\u011fumuza s\u0131n\u0131rlar koymal\u0131y\u0131z. Unutulmamas\u0131 gereken, bu s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 onlar\u0131 k\u0131s\u0131tlamak, \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fcklerini ellerinden almak i\u00e7in de\u011fil, gelece\u011fe uygun bir bi\u00e7imde haz\u0131rlamak i\u00e7in koydu\u011fumuzdur.\u0130lk Yay\u0131n Tarihi: 21 \u015eubat 2017 @ 22:20"},{"@context":"http:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"item":{"@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/#breadcrumbitem","name":"Sevgili Bebek"}},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"item":{"@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/buyumus-de-kuculmus\/#breadcrumbitem","name":"B\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f De K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f"}}]}]