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Anne babalar, \u00e7o\u011funlukla \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n kendilerine ba\u011fl\u0131, hatta ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131 olduklar\u0131ndan \u015fikayet ederler ve bu ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131k durumunu \u00e7\u00f6zmek ad\u0131na t\u00fcrl\u00fc yollara ba\u015fvururlar. Bu ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131k yemek yeme, Devam\u0131n\u0131 oku…<\/a>","datePublished":"2021-03-30","dateModified":"2021-03-30","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/author\/cocuk-gelisim-uzmani-ve-aile-danismani-emine-ergun\/#Person","name":"\u00c7ocuk Gl\u015f. Uzm. ve Aile Dn\u015f. Emine Erg\u00fcn","url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/author\/cocuk-gelisim-uzmani-ve-aile-danismani-emine-ergun\/","image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/b69ced9de5870d14a2a09e36d356f704?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/b69ced9de5870d14a2a09e36d356f704?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"Sevgili Bebek","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/cropped-sbikon.jpg","url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/cropped-sbikon.jpg","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/anne-bebek-yatak.jpg","url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/anne-bebek-yatak.jpg","height":385,"width":740},"url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/bir-vaka-incelemesi-cocugunuz-mu-size-bagli-siz-mi-cocugunuza-baglisiniz\/","about":["Ebeveyn & Aile","Zihinsel & Ruhsal Geli\u015fim"],"wordCount":778,"keywords":["Anne bebek aras\u0131 ba\u011f","anne bebek ba\u011f\u0131","anne bebek ba\u011flanmas\u0131","anne \u00e7ocuk ba\u011f\u0131","ba\u011f","ba\u011f kurma","ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131k","ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131k","Bebe\u011finizle ba\u011f kurmak","\u00e7ocu\u011fun kendi yata\u011f\u0131nda uyumamas\u0131","\u00e7ocukla ba\u011f kurmak","\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n yaln\u0131z yatamamas\u0131","ebeveyn bebek ba\u011f\u0131"],"articleBody":"B\u0130R VAKA \u0130NCELEMES\u0130: \u00c7OCU\u011eUNUZ MU S\u0130ZE BA\u011eLI S\u0130Z M\u0130 \u00c7OCU\u011eUNUZA BA\u011eLISINIZ?Anne babalar, \u00e7o\u011funlukla \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n kendilerine ba\u011fl\u0131, hatta ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131 olduklar\u0131ndan \u015fikayet ederler ve bu ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131k durumunu \u00e7\u00f6zmek ad\u0131na t\u00fcrl\u00fc yollara ba\u015fvururlar.Bu ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131k yemek yeme, uyuma, soka\u011fa \u00e7\u0131kma, kre\u015fe gitme gibi farkl\u0131 konularda olabilir. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131nda var olduklar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fckleri ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6zmek ad\u0131na bizlere de ba\u015fvurabilirler.Okuyaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z vaka incelemesi, \u00e7ocu\u011funun yata\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ay\u0131rmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan ama bunu birka\u00e7 kez denemi\u015f olmas\u0131na ra\u011fmen ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olamam\u0131\u015f bir anneye ait.A.D. bana geldi\u011finde \u00e7ocu\u011fu 6 ya\u015f\u0131ndayd\u0131 ve \u00e7ocu\u011fu ile hala ayn\u0131 yatakta yat\u0131yorlard\u0131. Anne durumu anlat\u0131rken birka\u00e7 kez yataklar\u0131 ay\u0131rmay\u0131 denedi\u011fini ama her seferinde \u00e7ocu\u011funun ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 nedeni ile ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olduklar\u0131n\u0131 anlatt\u0131.\u00c7ocuk i\u00e7in ayr\u0131 bir oda d\u00fczenlenmi\u015f, oda tak\u0131m\u0131 al\u0131nm\u0131\u015f, odas\u0131 i\u00e7in baz\u0131 e\u015fyalar\u0131 kendisinin se\u00e7mesi sa\u011flanm\u0131\u015f, uyku s\u0131ras\u0131nda kendisini yaln\u0131z hissetmemesi i\u00e7in ona oyuncak bir uyku arkada\u015f\u0131 al\u0131nm\u0131\u015f\u2026Yani, yatak ay\u0131rma s\u00fcrecinde yap\u0131lmas\u0131 \u00f6nerilen bir\u00e7ok durum hayata ge\u00e7irilmi\u015f ama ba\u015far\u0131 sa\u011flanamam\u0131\u015f.Anne durumu anlat\u0131rken, sebep olarak her seferinde \u00e7ocu\u011funun kendisine olan ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan bahsetse de, sat\u0131r aralar\u0131nda \u201cBen de onunla yatmaktan keyif al\u0131yorum, bakmay\u0131n \u015fikayet etti\u011fime, ke\u015fke hep birlikte yatsak\u201d gibi ifadeleri de s\u0131kl\u0131kla kullan\u0131yordu.Annenin bu ifadeleri do\u011frultusunda \u00e7ocu\u011fun bebekli\u011fi ile ilgili sorular sormaya ba\u015flad\u0131m. D\u00fcnyaya geldikten sonra ilk aylar\u0131n nas\u0131l ge\u00e7ti\u011fi, anne \u00e7ocuk aras\u0131nda nas\u0131l bir ili\u015fki oldu\u011fu, uyku rutinlerinin nas\u0131l oldu\u011fu \u00f6nemli detaylard\u0131.Anne bu sorular\u0131ma cevap verse de, bunlar\u0131 neden sordu\u011fuma anlam veremiyordu ve bunu a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a da sordu. \u201cBebekli\u011fi neden bu kadar \u00f6nemli, sorun \u015fimdide, ge\u00e7mi\u015fte de\u011fil\u201d dedi.Hafif\u00e7e g\u00fcl\u00fcmsedim ve anlatmaya ba\u015flad\u0131m.\u201cKonu\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zdan beridir \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun sizden ayr\u0131lmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in yata\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ay\u0131ramad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zdan bahsediyorsunuz. Peki siz ondan ayr\u0131lmaya haz\u0131r m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z\u201d dedim.\u201cHaz\u0131r\u0131m tabi, ayn\u0131 yatakta zor oluyor art\u0131k\u201d dedi\u201cFiziksel olarak demiyorum, ruhsal ve i\u00e7sel olarak ondan ayr\u0131lmaya haz\u0131r m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z demek istedim\u201d diye sorumu yineledim.\u00d6zellikle anne \u00e7ocuk aras\u0131nda var olan \u201cG\u00fcvenli Ba\u011flanma\u201d d\u00f6nemi ne kadar \u00f6nemli ise, \u201cG\u00fcvenli Ayr\u0131lma\u201d d\u00f6nemi de o kadar \u00f6nemlidir.Bu vakadaki anne, bebe\u011fi d\u00fcnyaya geldi\u011fi ilk g\u00fcnlerden itibaren be\u015f ay boyunca onu g\u00f6\u011fs\u00fcnde yat\u0131rm\u0131\u015f, uykuya dald\u0131ktan sonra g\u00f6\u011fs\u00fcnden al\u0131p, yata\u011f\u0131na yat\u0131rm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Her a\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda panikle yata\u011f\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131na ko\u015fmu\u015f ve ayn\u0131 panik ile onu kuca\u011f\u0131na alm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bebe\u011fi bir ya\u015f\u0131na gelene kadar onu en yak\u0131n\u0131 olan babas\u0131\u00a0ya da kay\u0131nvalidesine bile b\u0131rakmam\u0131\u015f, onlara yeteri kadar g\u00fcvenmemi\u015ftir. \u00c7ocu\u011fu uykuya dald\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ara ara yan\u0131na gidip nefesini koklayarak hayatta olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kontrol etmi\u015f.Burada s\u00f6z\u00fc ge\u00e7en anne-\u00e7ocuk aras\u0131nda bir ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131k ya da ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131k varsa, bu daha \u00e7ok annenin \u00e7ocu\u011fa olan ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r asl\u0131nda.Anne hen\u00fcz i\u00e7sel olarak \u00e7ocu\u011fuyla ayr\u0131 yatmaya haz\u0131r olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in, bu s\u00fcreci do\u011fru y\u00f6netemiyor, tutarl\u0131 ve kararl\u0131 davranam\u0131yor, \u00e7ocu\u011fun en ufak pes etmesi ya da sorun \u00e7\u0131karmas\u0131n\u0131 f\u0131rsat bilerek onu yeniden yata\u011f\u0131na al\u0131yor.Bu \u00f6rnekten de yola \u00e7\u0131karak o zaman \u015fu soruyu kendimize sormak gerekir\u201c\u00c7ocu\u011fumuz mu bize ba\u011fl\u0131, yoksa biz mi \u00e7ocu\u011fumuza ba\u011fl\u0131y\u0131z\u201d\u2026\u0130lk Yay\u0131n Tarihi: 21 May\u0131s 2016 @ 15:43"},{"@context":"http:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"item":{"@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/#breadcrumbitem","name":"Sevgili Bebek"}},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"item":{"@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/bir-vaka-incelemesi-cocugunuz-mu-size-bagli-siz-mi-cocugunuza-baglisiniz\/#breadcrumbitem","name":"Bir Vaka \u0130ncelemesi: \u00c7ocu\u011funuz mu Size Ba\u011fl\u0131, Siz mi \u00c7ocu\u011funuza Ba\u011fl\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?"}}]}]