[{"@context":"http:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/bekci-anne-sendromu-nedir\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/bekci-anne-sendromu-nedir\/","headline":"Bek\u00e7i Anne Sendromu Nedir?","name":"Bek\u00e7i Anne Sendromu Nedir?","description":"Son d\u00f6nmede nas\u0131l ki \u00e7ocuklarla ilgili farkl\u0131 geli\u015fim d\u00f6nemlerine ait farkl\u0131 sendromlar t\u00fcrediyse, anne babalar i\u00e7in de farkl\u0131 sendromlar ortaya \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor. Bunlardan en \u00e7ok bilineni \u201cBek\u00e7i Anne Sendromu\u201d Bu sendromun \u00f6zellikleri nelerdir: Bek\u00e7i anne \u00f6zelli\u011fi<a class=\"moretag\" href=\"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/bekci-anne-sendromu-nedir\/\"> Devam\u0131n\u0131 oku&hellip;<\/a>","datePublished":"2016-02-10","dateModified":"2017-06-10","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/author\/cocuk-gelisim-uzmani-ve-aile-danismani-emine-ergun\/#Person","name":"\u00c7ocuk Gl\u015f. Uzm. ve Aile Dn\u015f. Emine Erg\u00fcn","url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/author\/cocuk-gelisim-uzmani-ve-aile-danismani-emine-ergun\/","image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/b69ced9de5870d14a2a09e36d356f704?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/b69ced9de5870d14a2a09e36d356f704?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"Sevgili Bebek","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/cropped-sbikon.jpg","url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/cropped-sbikon.jpg","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/shutterstock_231406594.jpg","url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/shutterstock_231406594.jpg","height":667,"width":1000},"url":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/bekci-anne-sendromu-nedir\/","about":["Ebeveyn &amp; Aile"],"wordCount":613,"keywords":["aile","bebek","bek\u00e7i anne","\u00e7ocuk","Do\u011fum","ebeveyn","sendrom"],"articleBody":"Son d\u00f6nmede nas\u0131l ki \u00e7ocuklarla ilgili farkl\u0131 geli\u015fim d\u00f6nemlerine ait farkl\u0131 sendromlar t\u00fcrediyse, anne babalar i\u00e7in de farkl\u0131 sendromlar ortaya \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor.Bunlardan en \u00e7ok bilineni \u201cBek\u00e7i Anne Sendromu\u201d Bu sendromun \u00f6zellikleri nelerdir:Bek\u00e7i anne \u00f6zelli\u011fi g\u00f6steren anneler, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na kendilerinden ba\u015fka kimsenin bakamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrler. E\u015flerine, kendi annelerine, kay\u0131nvalidelerine bile g\u00fcvenmezler.\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 evde babas\u0131n\u0131n ya da anneannesinin yan\u0131nda b\u0131rak\u0131p k\u0131sa s\u00fcreli de olsa d\u0131\u015far\u0131ya \u00e7\u0131kmazlar.D\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015f bile olsalar ya s\u0131k s\u0131k evdekileri aray\u0131p \u00e7ocu\u011fun durumu ile ilgili bilgi al\u0131p, s\u00fcrekli direktif verirler, ya da d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131klar\u0131na pi\u015fman olup i\u015flerini bitirmeden hemen eve geri d\u00f6nerler.D\u0131\u015far\u0131da olduklar\u0131 s\u00fcrede s\u00fcrekli olarak saate bakarlar, huzursuz bir halde yapt\u0131klar\u0131 \u015feyden de zevk almazlar.Al\u0131\u015fveri\u015f, gezme ya da e\u011flence i\u00e7in d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015flarsa, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 evde ba\u015fka birine b\u0131rakt\u0131klar\u0131 i\u00e7in kendilerini su\u00e7lu hissederler, bu su\u00e7luluk duygusu vicdan azab\u0131na d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febilir.Bu duygular ile eve geri d\u00f6nd\u00fcklerinde \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na s\u0131k\u0131 s\u0131k\u0131 sar\u0131l\u0131p a\u011flayan anneler de vard\u0131r.\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n t\u00fcm ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 sadece kendileri kar\u015f\u0131lad\u0131klar\u0131 ve di\u011fer aile \u00fcyelerinin yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feyleri be\u011fenmedikleri i\u00e7in olduk\u00e7a yorulurlar.Baba, anneanne ya da babaanne yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmak istedi\u011finde ise onlar\u0131n yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir\u00e7ok \u015feyi ele\u015ftirirler. \u201cBez \u00f6yle ba\u011flanmaz, kuca\u011f\u0131na \u00f6yle alma, ben b\u00f6yle mi giydiriyorum, daha \u00f6zenli davran\u201d gibi uyar\u0131lar\u0131 nedeniyle di\u011fer aile \u00fcyeleri de zamanla ona yard\u0131m etmekten vazge\u00e7er.En \u00e7ok da do\u011fum izinleri bitip de i\u015fe ba\u015flayacaklar\u0131 zaman s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 ya\u015farlar. Sabah kap\u0131dan \u00e7\u0131karken \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 ile dakikalarca s\u00fcren vedala\u015fma nedeniyle, \u00e7ocuklar da onlardan \u00e7ok zor ayr\u0131l\u0131r.Ak\u015fam i\u015ften geldiklerinde ise t\u00fcm g\u00fcn \u00e7ocuklar\u0131ndan ayr\u0131 kalman\u0131n verdi\u011fi vicdan azab\u0131 ve su\u00e7luluk duygusu ile \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n her dedi\u011fini yapar, a\u011flamamas\u0131 i\u00e7in ellerinden geleni yaparlar.\u00c7ocuk ya\u015f ve geli\u015flim a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan ayr\u0131 yatmaya haz\u0131r olsa da, anne haz\u0131r olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve \u00e7ocu\u011fundan ayr\u0131 yatmay\u0131 ona ihanet gibi g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc i\u00e7in, yatak ayr\u0131ma s\u00fcresi uzad\u0131k\u00e7a uzar.E\u011fer yukar\u0131daki \u00f6zellikler sizde varsa, siz de bek\u00e7i anne olabilirsiniz. Bunu fark etti\u011finiz andan itibaren bu durumla m\u00fccadele etmeye ba\u015flay\u0131n. Ne \u00e7ocu\u011funuz ne de di\u011fer aile \u00fcyeleri sizin bu halinizden ho\u015fnut olmayacaklar.E\u015finiz \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun bezini gev\u015fek ba\u011flam\u0131\u015f ve bu y\u00fczden \u00e7i\u015fi d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015f olabilir. Bu durumda \u201cBen b\u00f6yle mi yap\u0131yorum, hi\u00e7 mi dikkat etmedin benim nas\u0131l yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131ma, b\u0131rak b\u0131rak ben yapar\u0131m\u201d \u015feklinde ifadeler kullanmak yerine, \u201cSan\u0131r\u0131m biraz gev\u015fek ba\u011flam\u0131\u015fs\u0131n bezi, bir daha ki sefere yan bantlar\u0131n\u0131 biraz daha s\u0131k\u0131 ba\u011flayabilirsin\u201d \u015feklinde uyar\u0131da bulunmak daha yap\u0131c\u0131 olacakt\u0131r.\u00c7ocuk Geli\u015fim Uzm. ve Aile Dan\u0131\u015fman\u0131 Emine Erg\u00fcn"},{"@context":"http:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"item":{"@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/#breadcrumbitem","name":"Sevgili Bebek"}},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"item":{"@id":"https:\/\/sevgilibebek.com\/bekci-anne-sendromu-nedir\/#breadcrumbitem","name":"Bek\u00e7i Anne Sendromu Nedir?"}}]}]